By Namrata Arora Last Updated:
Gone are the days when women were confined to their houses, hiding their faces, keeping their voices unheard, and spending their entire lives looking after their husband and children.
The 21st century woman is a new and evolved one who is smart, intelligent and aware, educated and carries herself with an attitude to kill for! And, the myth that strong independent women cannot be excellent wives as well, needs to be debunked pronto. So, we decided to get you all the reasons why women who are confident of themselves, who cannot be suppressed no matter what, can make for wonderful wives. She can light a fire in your life like no other!
They are self-driven and motivated individuals. Even if they do not feel like it on some days, they encourage themselves to get up and get going and that attitude is infectious.
Be it taking up a project at work or doing up your new home, they never leave any job they once start until it is done up to their satisfaction. They do not lose hope when the going gets tough.
Hell yes, they are! They do not give a damn about what others in the family or their friends circle think of them. They are confident, headstrong, and do what they know is right without offending anyone.
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You cannot speak down to them, ill-treat them or take them for granted. They do not take anyone’s nonsense. This also helps to maintain a balance in the relationship where both the partners are equal.
Whether your parents, your friends or the people at your work place do or don’t, they always believe in you and stand by you in all odds. That’s the kind of faith they have in you.
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Every man wants his wife to initiate romance and be a powerhouse of action while making love. Assertive woman are just that.
Because they are educated and responsible adults who understand the difference between right and wrong! No one can force them to do something they do not believe in.
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Be it size zero or size 20, they love their bodies and prefer to celebrate them instead of cribbing. And, no one has the guts to tell them to either lose or put on some extra kilos. They are who they are- Gorgeous women!
And, thank God for that! At least the marriage has a system to follow because if left entirely to the men; the mind hesitates to imagine the outcome!
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They do involve themselves in their homes and homely matters, but they do not linger on family problems and fights. They let unimportant things pass and focus on what is next as life is too short and they have goals to achieve.
A strong, self-made woman is always talked about. Good or bad, who cares, what they do matters and makes a difference. Aren’t we right girls?
Because of their assertive nature, they embrace a sense of positivity. They are ideals for other women to look up to. Their life philosophies seem so positive and full of enthusiasm.
And boy do they do that well! Running a marriage is not a one man job, literally. Both partners need to be equal participants. And, because they have their own persuasive voice, the two partners work as equals in all ups in downs of life.
The modern woman knows what she wants and knows how to demand it. They can be anything they choose to be. Having a wife who is bossy does not imply that she overrules her husband on everything. It just means that they too have an opinion on things, have an equal say, and take on things. Their husbands are lucky to have such wives. And, they also set a great example for those women who remain oppressed in their marriages.
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