It is so very easy for most brides to be to get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of planning a wedding that they forget to consider the most important aspect of the wedding ceremony – ensuring that your relationship with your future husband is sound and healthy. In many ways, planning for your wedding ceremony is a microcosm of your life together. It may seem to get hectic and stressful at times, but always remember that you will have many ups and downs in life after marriage. If your significant other does not really deal well with minor setbacks during the wedding, then how well do you think he will be able to manage the more serious obstacles that may arise after marriage?
There is no way to guarantee a happy and stress free life, but one way to do to increase the chances of having is a life is to marry a good listener. Not will listeners support you throughout your married life, but they are also better in bed! It may sound a little implausible, but please read the list below:
They listen
This may sound a little obvious, but men who are good listeners actually listen to you when you speak, and modify their behavior accordingly. Good sex does not depend upon technique and sexual skills as much as on open and transparent communication and the level of comfort between two individuals. So if your hubby to be is a good listener, it will be easier to build a rapport with him. If you have a good rapport with him, it will be easier for you to communicate with him and tell him what feels good and what doesn’t. Even if you are both virgins to begin with, it will not take much time for your listening hubby to become a sex god! Who knows, you may just end up rivaling Mallika Sherawat as a sex goddess yourself!
They are sensitive
The best thing about good listeners is that they are sensitive individuals who care as much about their partner’s pleasure as their own. This is a very rare quality, and this is why good listeners will try to make life easier for you in every possible way throughout the duration of your marriage.
Having a partner who cares about your sexual needs and well being is important, because a healthy and happy sex life is the cornerstone of any good married relationship. So a good listener will be receptive to your needs, and will be willing to try out new things depending on what you want. These two qualities are essential to have a good, healthy and equitable relationship. Someone who displays these qualities in bed will also display them in other areas of life, thus ensuring that you will have a happy and tension free married life!
Do you have any relationship tips of your own to share? What qualities to you think are essential in a potential husband? Share!
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