By Namrata Arora Last Updated:
So, you have finally found the guy/girl of your dreams, your soulmate with whom you cannot wait to begin the most exciting chapter of your life. But there is still time for the wedding and so, time for you to get to know each other even better! Wouldn’t you want to make these few days the most memorable ones of your life?
You certainly would and so, we get you awesome tips to help you make your courtship more romantic and worth remembering your entire life. Here you go!
You might be busy with your office work or wedding shopping, but make sure to make time for each other. You can catch up for a quick cup of coffee or set a time everyday to talk to each other. Or, join a hobby class together or something like that. Let your fiancé know that you will always take out time for him/her no matter what.
Stop being shy! You two are going to get married soon. Be open, flirt a little and let your fun and flamboyant side out in the open (at least in front of your partner-to-be). You have to break the ice someday, why not do it now and make your courtship a little more romantic?
Introduce him to your girly gang. Talk about them to him and vice-versa often and let them gel. Let your girls know how cool he is and let him also discover what gems your friends are. Plan dates together so that you get double the fun with your friends and to-be husband.
After all, you are going to move in with them. So, try to make a good equation with your mom-in-law. And same is the case with the guys, even if you are not going to stay with them for the rest of your life, but they are your new family, no?
Leave him hints about what you like, what you expect of him and what are the things you want him to do for you. He is no mind reader so make it easy for him. By doing so, you will be the happiest bride and he too will know exactly what he needs to do!
Be involved in your wedding. The wedding time creates a lot of conflict and misunderstanding between couples because of the clash of opinions and tastes. Be on the same page, compromise and adjust for each other and plan your wedding together.
Look good always. Go shopping and get yourself some awesome clothes, put on some makeup, get a cool haircut and dress to impress. Make him want to be with you when you are not around too. Let him go head-over-heels for you girl!
And do it like you mean it! Compliments coming from you will mean a lot to him. He will then strive harder to be his best, look his best ad treat you like a princess. Appreciation always feels good and a happy fiancé equals a happy and fun courtship.
If you haven’t started yet, start it right away! Talking about your honeymoon will surely give you both butterflies in your stomach and heat things up. Show each other how eager you both are to be alone, just the two of you at your romantic vacay.
Why not? Isn’t he/she going to be your husband/wife in a few days? Leave him/her flirty messages, exchange goodbye kisses, and do all that you want to do without any guilt or doubts.
Men are a little slow when it comes to planning surprises. So, instead of waiting for him to do it, you plan some yourself. Make him a home cooked dinner and light up some candles, make a picture collage with all your best pictures together and get it framed. Send this gift to his office desk. Book a weekend getaway for the two of you to celebrate your birthday, etc.
And believe us, as scary as it was before you got engaged, it is as much fun now. Where you want to live, how many kids you want, when you want to start planning, what you both want from your careers and so on. Start discussing these things, they will give you a feeling of belonging and commitment.
You finally have found the person you want to grow old with. So, make each and every moment count by making it special and meaningful. Happy courtship!
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