Dear Sister, Thank You So Much For Making Me A 'Mamu' And Blessing Me With Its Perks!

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Dear Sister, Thank You So Much For Making Me A 'Mamu' And Blessing Me With Its Perks!

Having a baby is the most exhilarating experience of your life. But with all the joy it brings you, it is also a lot of hard work. Do you want to know what is an even better thing? Well, most definitely, being a mama as you get the best of both worlds. (Or if you are a maasi. Read: 12 Things You Will Relate To Only If You Are A Maasi).

You get to love and spoil your sister’s child as much as you want and at the same time, you do not need to do all the tedious activities that parents have to do 24*7.

So, here we get you some more awesome perks for all the men whose sisters are either expecting or have recently become new mommies.

#1. You cannot wait to play all kinds of funny and weird games with your niece/ nephew

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Pee-ka-boo, spinning the rattle, making weird noises to make the kid laugh and basically all those things you had never imagined you would ever do, the things you laughed at others for doing, you do it all now!

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#2. You are already thinking of what all you want to buy for the new kid on its way

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You want to spoil him/her completely, you want the child to have every toy on the planet, you want him to be raised in the greatest possible environment.

#3. You pamper your sister to the fullest

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In your office break, you often go on the internet and read articles on pregnancy related care. You try your best to guide your sister, spend time with her, get her gifts and be as nice as possible with her.

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#4. You make sure you will be at the hospital at the time of delivery- no matter what

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Even if you have to attend an important board meeting, you will not miss this for the world!

#5. When the baby arrives, you realise that they are not just cute!

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Yes they are adorable, but they also drool, they poop, they vomit and they cry, a lot. But you still dote over them anyways.

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#6. Running after them is the best workout

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From morning to night, you cannot risk leaving them unattended even for a minute and that equals to the perfect workout.

#7. What they set eye on is theirs, not yours anymore

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Your watches, your favourite mobile cover, your phone and all your other valuable possessions are not yours anymore once the toddler sets his/her eyes on them.

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#8. You are their secret keeper and their idol

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Children are silent and quick observers and so, you choose your words and actions wisely because you know that there is someone carefully following your every move.

#9. Who knew kissing the wounds could make the pains go away

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And you realise this once the little one comes into your life. Magic does happen and kisses can shoo away the biggest of wounds!

#10. Little things start making sense to you, they matter

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The child’s first words, his/her first visit to the park, the way the child smiles at you, all these little things start meaning the world to you and thus, you start appreciating life more.

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#11. You spoil them to the fullest

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Gifts, chocolates, chips, toys, ice creams, muffins, all that is unhealthy but yummy, all that is expensive but fun to play with is what you get for your favourite kid in the world.

#12. You now understand that silence = danger

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You sometimes just pray for the child to take some rest and stop goofing around, but as soon as there is pin drop silence and he/she is nowhere to be seen, you know that it could possibly be a ‘911’ situation!

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#13. And when they throw tantrums or poop, you happily hand them over to the rightful owners

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Spoiling them is your job, but cleaning the poop is the creator’s job. Period!

#14. They can irritate you all they want and you do not get to say anything

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Usually, you do not really get irritated with their naughtiness and you have developed the patience to tolerate them. But, even on the instances when you do lose your patience, you cannot say anything to them.

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#15. They are your stress busters

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Whether you had a bad day at work, fought with your girlfriend/partner, seem to be little under the weather; whatever the problem might be, once you take the little one in your hands, all your worries fly out the window.

#16. You now start thinking of what life will be like when you have your own

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Whether you may like kids or not, after spending so much time with your niece/nephew, you start imagining what your life would be after you have your own kids and deep down in your heart, you want that time to come soon. You somehow feel you are ready.

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#17. No one matters more to you than them

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They are the most precious people to you on the planet right now. You feel like doing everything possible to protect them and always keep them happy. They are now priority!

#18. No matter how tired you are, it is always play time

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Even if you come back late from office after a hard day at work, if the kid wants to play, you play. Is it even possible to say no to that cute puppy face?

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#19. You are ready to leave your job and become the nanny

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Because you love spending time with the kid! You also never hesitate to offer to babysit if your sister has some work to do, in fact, you love doing that too!

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Being a mama only has its perks and no disadvantages. So whether you are going to become one or just recently became one, you sir are in for a treat. Henceforth start the most memorable days of your life.

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