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Having a guy in your life who is surrounded by female company can be threatening to your own relationship with him, right? Wrong! Even though you might not agree with us, but being with a guy who is popular amongst his female pals can be a very attractive quality about him. Not all guys are cheats, some are popular with the opposite sex because of their caring and protective nature.
So, without having any doubts in your mind, if you really love him and feel that you two are meant to be, do take your relationship to a serious level.
And, here are the reasons that will convince you why we are right and having him in your life is a great thing!
That is the reason he has so many female friends because he gets them. He is not macho all the time and that attracts all that female attention. Haven’t you always wanted a man like that?
He is their friend and friends do hang out together, right? He will make you a part of the plans too but sometimes, because you are busy or not available, the plans might continue without you too! That doesn’t mean he will cheat on you.
He is surrounded by all that female attention but out of all the lovely ladies, he chose to be with you. That is because you mean something special to him, you both connect and you are the one he chooses to be with truly and with all his heart and soul.
Because if he is surrounded by his ‘girl’ friends more than often, that is one thing he has become a pro at. And isn’t that the top most quality every girl wants in a guy, to be a good and attentive listener?
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Because he is good with girls and has a way to woo them in the right sense, he will be the darling son that your mom always wanted. Mark our words, he will help your mom in the kitchen, ask her out to join you in your plans and bitch about you with her all day long! What else does a daughter’s mother want?
So do not be a possessive girlfriend and stress about checking his phone whenever he is not around but his phone is. He treats them as ‘just’ his friends. Your stress will only upset you and cause problems in your relationships for no reason at all.
They might like you a lot or feel jealous of you for taking him away from them. Whichever way it is, just relax and deal to live with it your own way!
Guys who understand girls in a way where they really want to and they care, learn to become protective. He will always worry about your safety, be there when you need him and make sure he makes time for you.
Because you did not ask him to chose between you and his female friends, he will always respect you for being so understanding and give you your space and the right to choose your own friends too. He will never be an over-protective, possessive or jealous sort of a boyfriend.
When they see that he has you and a lot of female friends too and the fact that you are okay with it; they will want a life just like his for reasons that are obvious! Because at the end of the day, guys will be guys, right?
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Yes, there are the advantages of dating a guy like this, but then you need to be careful too! He should never take advantage of your carefree nature and trust towards him. He should know where to draw the line, and how much closeness with his friends is acceptable to you, now that you two are in a relationship.
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