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Getting married is the biggest and most important moment in any girl’s life, along with being the most exciting and happy one. A new beginning of life, new people, new ways of living and so much more that is completely different from what her life was like before. And whether hers is a love marriage or an arranged one, she has so many apprehensions, questions and doubts in her mind. For which, she seeks a promise from him that he will always be the person that he claims to be, something she hesitates in saying them to him out loud.
So, if you are one of those girls who are going through the same phase, here is an article that you can tag your would-be husband, and let him know what you wish for.
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Whatever I am, I owe it all to them. So you asking my hand from them first, would be a great honour for them, and I would really appreciate that.
We do not just marry each other, but each other’s families too. And as I come forward to accept and love your parents as my own, I would want you to do the same for my parents with open arms.
Yes a proposal is once in a lifetime kind of a thing! So, I want it to be big, filmy and magnificently romantic. A big fat ring, dinner by the lake, swans, vocalists with violins, fireworks; bring it all on!
Our separate accounts, our joint accounts, what we want to save and how we want to manage our investments. For all of the above, I want that we should always sit together and have a peaceful and productive conversation.
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My own free time where I can hang out with my friends, go for a movie with my mom, have a full day at the spa and do whatever I want to do but without you. Not always, but whenever I want to!
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I know you love and respect your mom and I do too. But, if there is ever a fight where you know I am not at fault, I wish you would support me. And by supporting, I do not imply that you fight with her, but just that you stand by me!
I know my limits much better than anyone else. I am a mature and responsible adult and would not wear anything that does not look good on me. I would want the liberty to choose what I feel like wearing always! Of course, I will listen to you too but would not like to be forced, ever!
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Yes I want to have it, lots of it, but I also want you to respect my space and never force me into doing it. I may not be feeling up for it at times, and that is when just a sweet loving cuddle will do best!
Because you saying that will make my bad day convert into an awesome one!
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I love you, but I love my friends too. I have lived a lifetime with them and share a very special and unbreakable bond with all of them. So, I would want you to know that, and never put me in a difficult situation wherein for some reason you ask me to choose one of you.
Whether I want to work, sleep till late when I feel little under the weather, make friends of my choice and eat food of my liking specifically!
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I have LOADS of makeup, beauty products, clothes, styling products and gadgets for which I would need lots of space in the washroom and a huge closet space. I hope you understand how important all this is for me, and provide me with lots of space. Wait, did I forget shoes?
I do not want to feel like I am speaking to a wall when I am speaking to you. I want you to be my best friend and my confidant, someone who guides me and gives me solutions, someone who is communicative and knows all about me.
I too want to have children but when and how many should be a joint call, a decision that we both happily agree to. I want to start a family once I have fully achieved a few things in life, so that I never ever have any regrets. I hope you understand and support me for the same.
Plan some surprises, travel with me, be spontaneous while we make love, etc., if not always, then at least sometimes!
I want you to promise me that you will always stick around and never leave my side and that you would make every effort to give me a nice and comfortable life for which I will support you at each and every step!
Having said all that, these are not orders, but just a few wishes that most girls expect out of their would-be husband. And, an understanding spouse can provide you with all the promises and stand by them too!