By Neelam Jain Last Updated:
The problems keep arising and there is a clash on trivial issues. You made all those necessary efforts, but still feel incompatible with your partner. Well, blame game is not the key and counselling won’t work either. What’s causing the brawl are your zodiac signs. Every astrological sign has its own unique features, and plays a crucial role in maintaining a healthy chemistry with your spouse or lover.
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Just like your nature, manners and individual specific traits; zodiac sign too can come in the way of having a rewarding relationship. Let’s have a look at the sun signs that are poles apart in character, personality and behaviour.
Don’t freak out if it’s collapsing with your Cancer or Capricorn partner. No matter what you do for them, you will see all the efforts plagued. In fact, all tools and remedies fail to have that prosperous relationship with Cancer and Capricorn. There are elements and character traits concerned with Aries, which do not match with that of a Cancerean or a Capri. You are fiery and defined as energetic and extrovert. You will hardly find yourself gelling well with conservative and introvert Cancerean and Capricorn.
Arguments, heartbreaks, tears and differences in beliefs; this is what happens when an honest and serious Taurian in you falls in love with a Leo or an Aquarian. The inclinations and tendencies between you and your partner are very much different. We don’t deny that you are as determined and courageous as a Leo, but Leo’s roar and headstrong approach towards life can get too much to handle for you. Also, your matchmaking gets difficult with an Aquarian who will keep correcting and finger pointing at you.
Talk love, mental compatibility or understanding level; Gemini-Virgo and Gemini-Pisces match are more like a disaster. Astrologically you are fun-loving and free-spirited whereas your Pisces partner is dreamy and sensitive. Though Virgos to an extent are little practical and down to earth, but they are so mentally quick that you will feel like maintaining a distance. This leads to extremely low chances of a promising and peaceful relationship with Virgos and Pisces.
Yes, love conquers all but at times you need more than just love. As per astrology, it gets difficult for you to pull off with Aries or Libra. Your ability to adapt gets worsened with these two Zodiacs. Your relationship will hardly look organised and stable. As you are slow paced, you will find everything bumpy with fiery Aries and versatile Libra. It will in fact always be a challenge for you to make the relationship go a distance.
The world knows what a Leo thinks about himself/herself. You are the king of the jungle and have to win. But this becomes explosive when your competition is with a Taurian or a Scorpion. Taurians are equally headstrong and determined, and find difficult having to adjust with an immovable Leo partner. Scorpions also want complete control and want what they want. So, when everybody wants to have it their way, the bedrock of relationship is ought to be shaky.
It is impossible for you to strike a balance with Gemini and Sagittarius. Neither you nor your partner is trying to be responsive or give in. Sometimes you get so specific and practical that you get on to your partner’s nerves. You wish to be precise and detailed about petty matters whereas Gemini is talkative and like to party out. Also, since you are a doer, you can’t stand a carefree Sagittarius. It is also not okay when you see Sagittarius disappearing and showing after a week because you want explanations. All this leads to unrealistic expectations and nothing else.
Different tastes of Cancer and Capricorn create a problem for Libra. As a Libran, you get easily bored in a relationship, fly high, party out and take initiatives. Now, the same temperament is hardly possible with Cancer who wants to chill at home and relax. On the other hand, Capricorn is an over-thinker, and need more and more time to be sure of everything. But you are impulsive, hate monotony and don’t have this much time.
It’s not a healthy match, but a power struggle if your partner is a Leo or an Aquarian. You want to lead and want a role in decision-making. Whereas, Leo is a leader in his/her own right and wants a preference. For Aquarians dealing with changes or marriage plans are like a phobia. It’s a cumbersome task to have an Aquarian convinced.
Sagittarius can put up with the whole world except Virgo and Pisces. Virgo needs to keep patience with you who want to be specific and trap the other person. Whereas being confined and locked up is exactly what you fear. Pisces just don’t want to come out of the baby phase. They keep having fantasies and spilling their desires. For a Sagittarius, such expectations are unreal and can’t be fulfilled.
Aries and Libras are sure shot red flags to you in terms of marriage or a relationship. In fact, it’s not worth taking the life-long risk with them. You focus on taking more and more time and being sure. Libra is speedy and certainly not an easy target. And, Aries fear too much examining and scrutiny. You certainly lack that energy to deal with either of the partners. Everybody is a tough nut to crack.
You don’t feel like breaking free from the stereotype and you are difficult to be motivated. Taurians are always in a motivated mode. They are ruled by Venus and love is what they are attracted to. So, here lies the conflict. It’s a simple give and take for Taurians. Scorpions don’t like to be possessed at all. So, when nobody is a listener, it will make a relationship shallow.
Asserting power and rules is not your cup of tea. And you are gentle and mild by nature. But your Gemini partner would like to magic-up everything every now and then. Sagittarius too is adventurous and might curb your freedom with their ruling nature. All these traits signal resentment and hostility.
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So, we see how the conflict, drama and disagreements have something to do with the zodiac sign of your partner. But that doesn’t mean the zodiac sign is always an answer. The actual bond, connection and inner peace require a whole lot of efforts and nourishment. Having a partner with a compatible zodiac sign can be a win-win situation for you, but not your means of solving your marital problems.