12 Signs That You Are Dating A Boy And Not A Man

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12 Signs That You Are Dating A Boy And Not A Man

Women often face a big dilemma while choosing a partner for dating. As women tend to mature faster than men, finding a guy who is at par with their thoughts and ideologies gets a little tricky.

But hey, no need to worry. We can help you out in separating the boys from the men. So, here we list out some common habits of guys, who have yet not left their adolescence behind and reached a level of maturity. Read here to find out why they are just not there yet!

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#1.  He lives only for himself

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This guy has plans, lots of them, but all for himself. It is always about his choices and his likes, dislikes. Beware of such boys as they will never be able to understand your priorities or accept your choices.

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#2.  He plays mind games with you

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A guy who is constantly playing with your mind, should be rejected straightaway. He has not learnt what it is to be in a mature relationship. For him, this relationship with you is perhaps, just casual dating.

#3. He lives only in the moment

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Such a guy has no plans for his future. He knows nothing about what is coming his way. He has no goals or ambitions in life.

#4. He cannot take decisions without his mother

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This guy is a mamma’s pet and does not know how to take decisions without consulting her first. He has never been set free, nor knows how it is like to be alone. He is dependent on his mother for even the smallest of things. He cannot do his chores properly, cannot even cook for himself and expects you to do everything. You might like guiding him through initially, but when it starts becoming a regular affair, then you will definitely dislike it.

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#5. He 'has to win' in arguments

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He is adamant on proving you wrong and tries to win every argument that you guys have. Even when he knows you are right, then he will keep on arguing with you. And his favourite of all is, the blame game. This is a sure shot sign that he is not yet mature enough to handle disagreements.

#6. He cannot handle his job

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If he always complains or cribs about his job or gets fired often, then this boy still needs to figure out where he is headed. If he is too lazy to work and is not at all enthusiastic about what he does, he still needs to do some growing up.

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#7.  He does not care for you

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He does not care when you are sick, never pampers you, and never takes you out or offers you a ride back home if your car is out of order. This guy is so much into himself that you cannot ever depend on him in your time of need.

#8. He worries about what ‘others’ will think

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A man will never bother about what people think about him. He is confident enough to handle himself and go ahead with what he feels is right. An insecure person on the other hand, will always be bothered about others people's viewpoints.

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#9. He makes your life difficult

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When he is angry with you, he will not even give you a reason and just cut you off. He will make sure he makes your life difficult until you apologise to him. And, you might not even know what the issue is! Such a cry baby needs to grow up before he gets into a mature relationship.  

#10. He keeps secrets from you

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This guy does not share anything with you. Be it his feelings or his day-to-day life. Either he is scared to open up or he simply does not trust you.

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#11. All he likes about you are your looks

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This baby does not want to know the real you. For him, you are only a beautiful object to be flaunted around. The two of you share absolutely no connection at all. A man will want to connect with his partner at all levels and not stick to only physical appearances.

#12. He is constantly testing you

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This is the most annoying habit of immature guys. Instead of simply expressing themselves openly about what they want in a relationship, they will just put you on a spot. And, if you react in a way that they were not expecting, then you surely fail.

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A true man will never do these things to hurt his ladylove. Only the guys who are still stuck in their adolescence can be seen doing the above mentioned things. So, learn to recognise a man from a boy and you will be happy forever!

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