4 Most Tricky Stages Of A Marriage And How You Can Survive Them

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4 Most Tricky Stages Of A Marriage And How You Can Survive Them

A blissful life, full of happiness and love is what every newly married couple wishes for as they walk down the aisle, hand in hand, promising to support each other through thick and thin. In the initial years of marriage, life looks like a fairy tale, but as time passes by, you come face to face with the reality.

You face some tricky marriage situations, which you least thought will ever occur. Some people panic while some try to ignore them. But, instead of running away from them you should resolve the issues, else it can create huge problems later on. So, here is a guide to survive some tricky stages of marriage.

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#1. The ‘you have changed’ stage

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GIF via Giphy

Is this what you say to each other all the time? Well, after a few years of marriage, intimacy and passion goes out of the window and love takes a back seat. You start taking each other for granted. This could be stressful at times. So, love and care for your partner, no matter how busy you are. A good-bye kiss, bringing some flowers for them, preparing their favourite meal, and saying those three magical words sometimes will help in making your bond stronger.

#2. No ‘us’ time

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Image: Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani

Hectic and busy schedules take a toll on every relationship. Cell phones and laptops are the next big things, which keep everyone busy. As a result, you end up spending little or no time with your partner and this creates distance between both of you. And, if no measures are taken then this distance could lead to various problems in the future. Thus, keep all the gadgets aside and spend quality time with your partner. Romantic walks, short vacations and doing household chores together are a few things along with many others that keep your relationship alive.

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#3. Child takes the limelight

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Image: Shaadi Ke Side Effects

This is one of the trickiest phases of marriage. When a child is born, the new parents go through a lot of changes. The new-born baby gets most of the attention and care. As a result, sometimes husbands feel left out. The only way to deal with this situation is by paying equal attention to both of them and by sharing the child’s responsibility together. Help your man to be a great father. Do not lose yourself in motherhood. Your husband needs you as much as your child does.

#4. Staying mum and bottling up feelings

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GIF via Tumblr

After 5-10 years of marriage, there comes a time when couples hardly share things with each other. They stay silent about their feelings or challenging situations and bottle them up. As a result, the problem grows and turns into a horrible condition later on. Thus, always open up and share your feelings with your significant other before things get out of control. You do not always need to handle everything single-handedly. Sometimes, talking to your partner can give you the much-needed perspective.

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Remember, no marriage is perfect. It is full of difficulties. But, if you survive the tricky stages of marriage together, you can make your marriage a perfect one. It all depends upon you and your efforts to make your marriage picture-perfect. So, never give up. Instead work out on the complicated situations together and keep the spark in your marriage as well as in your relationship alive.

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