14 Traits Every Mature And Everlasting Couples Have In Common

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14 Traits Every Mature And Everlasting Couples Have In Common

Maturity is something that comes with age. As they say, the most matured grapes make the finest wines; the same is the case with relationships. When you are in one from a long time and want it to be the real thing - something true, special and everlasting, you don’t resort to silly habits and gestures that might affect your relation with your partner in the most harmful way possible.

You are rather careful of the actions you follow and words you choose. You want this to last forever and so you act maturely. To make things more relatable, we bring to you habits that only mature couples exhibit in their relationships. And when we say mature couples, we mean to talk about the level of maturity in their relationship. 

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#1. They don’t spy on each other

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Gif via Giphy

They never resort to things such as checking each other’s cell phones, listening to recorded messages, stalking each other on facebook or going through the closets.

#2. Their past is buried deep in the soil

Akshay Kumar and Twinkle Khanna

And so they never compare their present to it. They know that it ended because of a reason and what they have now is much better.

#3. They don’t show off on social media

Rani Mukherhji and Aditya Chopra

Check-ins, PDA pictures, couple selfies and what not. They don’t need to show off their love to the world to prove its pureness or legitimise it.

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#4. They are not attached to each other all the time

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Image Courtesy: Bade Achhe Lagte Hain

They like to give and take space. This gives them some time to themselves and makes them understand each other’s value and appreciate the other more.

#5. They never speak ill of each other to any one

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If they have some issues, they sort them out between the two of them. They might even shout at each other, and resort to name calling behind closed doors but to the world, they are the perfect couple.

#6. They never compete with each other

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Image Courtesy: Instagram

Instead they always encourage each other to do better. They appreciate, compliment and praise. They always keep each other’s spirits high and have each other’s back.

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#7. They love each other for what they are

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Image Courtesy: Instagram

They will never try to change their partner to suit their needs. They fell in love with each other for their true selves. For them, just being able to see the love of your life every morning when they wake up is life’s biggest gift.

#8. They respect each other’s family

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Image Courtesy: Instagram

Just like they would love and respect their own. They never speak ill of or criticise each other’s folks. They accept them with open arms and in return get back the same genuine love and care from the parents.

#9. They take care of each other

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In health and in sickness! They compromise for each other and make time to be there always!

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#10. They eat together and sleep together

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Image Courtesy: Instagram

At least one meal of the entire day to discuss about how the day was! And yes, they go to bed together at the same time and make time to snuggle, cuddle and make love whenever both feel like.

#11. They don’t hold grudges

 

Yes, they fight, a lot, they are human after all. But they fight, sulk, resolve the matter, forgive or apologise and forget.

#12. They talk to each other

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Image Courtesy: Ek Main Hu Aur Ek Tu

They want to know about each other’s life, they want to be in the loop. They share their experiences with each other, take advice, confide and feel free.

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#13. They are intimate

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Image Courtesy: Instagram

However new or old their relationship might be, they don’t forget to make time to make love and to flirt. They hold hands, the touch each other a lot, they make eye contact and they cuddle a lot, not because they have to, but because they want to.

#14. They complete each other

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Image Courtesy: Instagram

Yes, that’s true and in every possible way. They feel like something’s missing if they are not together. They value and respect each other. They help each other to grow as individuals and complement each other just the right way.

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Basically, that’s the secret to a long lasting and beautiful relationship and if you want yours to be just like that, you need to start following the above very seriously!

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