Losing virginity before marriage- A crime or no is one of the most debatable topics as the opinion about this topic varies from person to person. For some it is a taboo especially in the case of woman. For these people a woman’s body is a temple and is meant for only one man, irrespective of whether he abuses it or sells it off. While a lot of youngsters these days think it’s no crime to lose their virginity as getting physical with partner is just a need. So let us read through this article and try to find out who holds a lot of weight when it comes to gauging if this is a crime!
Thought process of people who consider loss of virginity a crime
Perception about losing one’s virginity prior to marriage is not a fact that may people can digest, especially when it comes to a woman. In India when a boy gets physical for first time he is praised while on the other hand if a girl has lost her virginity prior to marriage she is punished. This is a very common culture still seen in the villages of India. In fact it is not just India that believes in this custom but history shows that it has been in force since the Victorian days. In those days, women were taught that their body is a temple and meant only for the man their parents chose for them. According to these oldies, women are still an object man can play with and has been made to satisfy the physical need of man. In some Indian customs on the first night also called as Suhagarat, a white sheet is placed on the bed to check if the girl married to their boy is a virgin. If it is stained with her blood then she is a pious girl or else she is taunted for the rest of her life.
Thought process of the new generation
Thanks to the influence of the west as it has changed the perception of virginity loss before marriage. Many youngsters do not care if their partners are virgin or not. According to them it really does not matter if your partner is a virgin or no as far as you love her. According to Osho, getting physical is a hunger just like hunger for food. If this is hunger is satisfied then there will be no cases of rape. Making love is an art and this art requires an equal effort from both parties. If one is not ready or is being forced then it is not making love but rape. There is nothing better than losing your virginity to the person who loves you. Circumstances may prevent these love birds from getting married but that one moment can be cherished for the rest of their lives.
Loss of virginity prior to marriage is a very debatable topic, but losing your virginity to a man whom you love a lot is something you can’t forget. Will you still call it a crime? I will not because I lost mine to a person I was madly in love with and do not regret that moment!
