10 Important Lessons You Learn After Breaking Up With A Loser

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10 Important Lessons You Learn After Breaking Up With A Loser

We agree that breaking up with your loved one is painful. But, it does not mean that it is the end of the world. In fact, break-ups give you a new perspective towards yourself as well as life. Sometimes, breaking up with a loser can be your best experience. In other words, it is like a blessing in a disguise. So, claiming that dating your loser, annoying, immature ex was a complete waste of time, is actually not true. Your failed relationship gives you important lessons, which you can follow for the rest of your life. So, instead of beating yourself up for your failed relationship, sobbing and being upset, look out for the best things about your break-up. Just remember these points that a break-up can teach you.

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#1. You are stronger than you thought

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Your life revolves around your partner. But, when you are out of that phase you realise you were wrong. As you move on, you realise you can stay without such a person, and enjoy the blessing called life.

#2. It is always better to be careful in money matters

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If you have been burnt in this regard you will know better in the future. This break-up will teach you exactly how important it is always to keep your money matters separate unless you are 100 per cent sure that your bond is for lifetime. 

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#3. Crying will not get you anywhere

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It does help to deal with the emotional turmoil, but does not help you in long run. It makes you weak and vulnerable, a feeling that no one likes. As this realisation dons upon you, you can only come out stronger!

#4. You do not have to forget yourself

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Pleasing your partner or making him/her happy does not mean that you have to forget the real you. Even you have the right to enjoy during the relationship equally. So, do not forget to do things you love post this break-up; things you might have given up thanks to your ex.

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#5. You do not have to compromise every time in the relationship

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Agreed, that there is give and take in every relationship. But hey, there is limit to that too! You should not always compromise just for the interest of your partner or for the relationship. It becomes a habit later. This is a habit you can break after the break-up, and never repeat again.

#6. Pretending was not a good idea

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It is better to be yourself than to pretend being someone else just to keep your relationship alive. It only leads to a suffocating relationship.

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#7. You realise who your best friends are

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Your best friend will always have your back, who will guide and support you. And, once you have a break-up, you will see that. Hanging out with best friends is far better than having a bad boyfriend/girlfriend.

#8. You deserved better

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And, you do not realise this unless you break-up with your so-called lover. When you are in a relationship you usually do not realise how bad you are being treated by your partner. But, it is only after you end your relationship, you realise that you deserved someone far better than your boyfriend/girlfriend.

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#9. That being single is actually kind of awesome

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You are your own boss. So, do not rush into a relationship just because you are scared of being single. Just enjoy your ‘me time’ and have fun. You will later realise being single was the best phase of your life. A single life is far better than the one with your selfish partner. 

#10. You cannot change someone unless they want to be changed

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And, you will realise this once you end the relationship and move on. Now you can be free!

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Not every love affair has a fairytale ending. But, every relationship teaches you something, especially break-ups. So, instead of crying your heart out, try to take things in the positive light and learn from your failed relationship. After all, there is no better teacher than experience.

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