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Only the girls who have an elder sister know what it is like to live without her when she gets married. The greatest joy in this world is to have a sister who is your guide, your confidant and a best friend for life. And if you thought that her leaving the house after her marriage was hard on you, you need to step into her shoes for once and see how difficult it is for her too. And to explain the same in a better way, we get for you the most important 15 things every girl wants to tell her sister during her vidaai.
Whenever you are in need, any trouble, a heartbreak, a new crush, all the girly issues; you just need to pick up the phone and I am there for you. Just because we do not live under the same roof now does not mean I would not leave the most important work and rush to come see you.
Because from the day you were born, I made a promise to be your guardian angel, always and forever. All other relations in the world are secondary for me, and you are the only one who matters and comes first.
I am happy to be getting married, but at the same time I am a nervous wreck. So many emotions at the same time go through my brain, and this is the time that I need you the most to understand me and give me all the encouragement and strength and keep me calm.
You can use my room whenever you want, but make sure you leave it spick and span whenever I am going to visit. It is a room full of a million memories and so it is very dear to my heart.
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Not seeing you in my room everyday will be very strange. Catching up at night about how our day went, endless gossips and the late night maggies; I am going to miss all of that. I know I will have someone equally interesting with me now but believe me, it won’t be the same without you.
Because now, you both mean the world to me and a great bond between the two will make life beautiful for me. Try to know each other better if not for anything else than at least for me.
When I was there, I did not let you feel the burden of any responsibility. But now that I will not be around, you got to take up some on your own and become more efficient and organised. Do not dump your responsibilities on mom and dad as they have a lot in their kitty already.
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It is my house and always will be just as it is yours. So treat me just the same way like you did before- no special treatments and no formalities. And I will be so grateful to you if you do that.
Seeing you cry will break me. You are my pillar of strength! So be strong for me. Smile, be happy and give me the courage to step into this new phase of life with you by my side.
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I might have happy times and some sad ones too. But the only person I want to share it all with is you. So please be there for me always!
Your honest, blunt and brutally true opinions are what keep me going and on the right track. Be that mean to me always!
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I might unintentionally do some things that might hurt you. I am going to begin a new life with a new family and so things might get different. But promise me you will always let me know how you truly feel.
I know I was always the responsible one, who always fed the dogs and took them out for their walks. But now that I will not be there, however busy you might be, always remember to feed them. They do not have a voice of their own so care for them.
Help them, care for them, pamper them and do not ever let them feel lonely. You will realise how much our parents do for us the day you become one yourself. So don’t do anything that will make you feel bad later.
Well, I had to tell you that, because isn’t that the elder sibling rule? Jokes apart, you really were! No seriously!
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Every sister loves her younger sister dearly and would do anything to stay a little longer with her but marriage has to happen someday. And deep down inside, all of the above are the only things she wants to tell her younger one. If you think we have missed out on something, feel free to add it in the comments section below.