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To define the relationship of a bhabhi and a nanad is impossible because what they have is an assortment of various kinships. It is a beautiful relationship, with certain ups and downs. Whatever your nanad might be like, she definitely falls into one of these 10 categories. Find out which one!
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Although, most nanads are caring by nature, these ones go an extra mile just to ensure that you find it easy to adjust in the new environment. From the day it is decided that you will be her bhabhi, she starts making little notes of the things you like and dislike. And, before you even know it, you realise that she has made all the necessary changes in the house for your arrival. She will always care about you.
The modern ones are really chilled out but have strong ethics. They do not believe in defining your relationship as nanad-bhabhi as she would insist on being friends or even better, sisters. Also, she would not let any anti-feminist person dictate you what to do in the name of traditions.
If you are a social person, you will love the sissy-in-law with a gang. She will be hanging out with her friends and bring them home as well. Because of her, even your social circle will increase. With her and the gang, every day will be fun.
The one with all the advice is generally the older nanad. She is experienced and knows her way around all the situations. She has many cheat codes and the best part is, she would not mind you using them on her brother. Kudos to the spirit!
This sister-in-law is simply a blessing. She is always ready to help with the chores when you get caught up in running your errands. Besides, having someone by your side automatically makes work easy and fun.
She knows all the brands and has pretty good fashion sense. Her room is filled with fashion magazines, and cupboards filled with the latest collections of clothes. If you have any doubt about matching your accessories with an outfit, she will be ready with a solution or maybe even with a pair of new earrings.
This is the one for whom the song 'Saturday, Saturday' was originally composed. Whether it is enjoying at a club or throwing a house party, her life is all about having fun. By default, you will either end up opening the door for her at night or joining her to the club.
'Bhabhi, chalo shopping karne chalte hai'. Yes, that's her mantra and you will love it. She does not wait for any occasion or the weekend or a holiday, she just loves to shop and can do it for absolutely no reason. And, being her shopping buddy, you end up buying things for yourself too.
She loves kids. She has even made a list of names and things to do with her own nieces and nephews. Although she would never say it, she is the one who is more excited for your baby than you.
This kind of nanad is the reason girls start fearing the relationship of nanad-bhabhi so much. They are the ones who do not like you, maybe because you hold a special place in their brother’s life and all the attention that they got before your marriage, is now bestowed upon you. The reasons can be multiple, but the outcome is that they might make life a little difficult for you at your in-law’s place.
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Well, not all the fingers of one’s hand can be of the same size. This holds true for people, and in this case nanads too. Some are quite, some loud; some are extroverts, some introverts, but they all are a part of your new family and you have to make your peace with them. But here is some reassurance from our side; most nanads are sweethearts who love their bhabhis to the moon and back. Anyway, which category does your sister-in-law fall into?
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