By Namrata Arora Last Updated:
We all wish to find the perfect guy someday. The one who has all the qualities of a gentleman, someone who moves with the time and is a great companion. But there are certain cases where girls end up attracting the wrong kind of men. And sometines the reason lies in your habits.
Here, we bring to you 11 such traits of yours that attract the worst kind of guys that you have not even thought of dating in your dreams. So, know them and ponder over!
Yes, good looks are a major trait that you would want in your man but at what cost? What lies beneath all that beautiful exterior is what matters. Looks will fade away someday, but a true and caring heart stays the same always. Only if you are terribly lucky can you get a guy who has the looks and enormously large and kind heart.
You are making a big mistake if you like a guy but choose to ignore your feelings just because he is quiet and shy. You may be pleasantly surprised about his personality traits as you approach him and get to know him better; you just have to give it a chance. A loud person on the other hand might be the ‘I, me, myself’ kinds!
And thus going for bad boys instead! You know the ones who don’t really treat you well, make plans without you, expect you to wait be loyal, but they can flirt with other girls in your absence. Again, huge mistake!
If he is rude to people around him, either known or unknown to him, that speaks volumes about his personality. When faced with a problem or difficult situation, he will misbehave with you too as that is his core nature.
Even a guy who is not that popular can be interesting. You don’t need to be famous to be perfect, right? On the other hand, if you do start dating that famous type, all that attention that surrounds him might get on your nerves someday!
Why subject yourself to the same torture again when you have faced a bad experience once before? Be smarter than that and don’t allow yourself to fall in the same trap again!
Not that all guys are like that but the ones who are overtly brand obsessed are also big show offs. They have the money and they love to show it off. Clothes or their labels don’t matter when the guy you are with treats you like a princess even though he wears simple clothes. Unless all that bling attracts you, stay away from that type!
In fact, being with a guy who is a little old and much more mature than you means that you are in safe, sensible, and trustworthy hands.
Just because you feel that you like the guy way too much and not taking the next step into the relationship might mean the end of it, is a wrong way to go about it. If you don’t get to know the guy properly before starting a relationship with him, you might terribly regret your decision later.
Do you really think that would make you happy? Are you not above all that? Don’t you deserve someone great, someone your type and someone who keeps you happy and stands by you no matter what?
Every human on the planet is different. Comparisons only land you up in difficult situation and with difficult people. You can never know how compatible you will be with him until you start going out. Then, how can you be sure that someone just like ‘’XYZ’’ is the correct choice for you?
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If you are with someone, it is your right to be treated well and with respect. If these are the traits you have been following, then there is no surprise why your relationships always end in a bad way and your partners turn out to be total jerks. So wake up, realize your worth and stop settling for anything that isn’t meant for you.
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