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They say that men remain babies at heart even when they grow old. And, throughout their younger days too, they have to be taken care of either by their mothers, their girlfriends or their wives. They like to take things lightly, live by no rules and enjoy their bachelorhood the most. But, what happens when they find their true match, their soulmate, the real love of their life? Needless to say, their world suddenly becomes brighter, and they want to be with that special someone always.
Well, if something like this just happened to you too, then you certainly are one lucky fellow. While you have found the right one for yourself, you too need to ensure that you are the right choice for her. And for that, there are a few habits you need to let go off. So, let us give you a list of those.
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We live in a world of equality of the sexes. And, if you love a person truly, there should be no question of letting your ‘I am a guy, so I will rule’, kind of an ego come in the way.
If you love someone and are proud of it, why not admit it and say what you feel to her directly! Using your friends or hers to send messages or convey to her what you feel is something that seems cute in college. Aren’t you looking for a real companionship and an everlasting relationship at this stage of your life?
Yes, their opinions matter, but it is you who needs to be sure of your choice and not them. And, if she really is the right one, why would you need to reconfirm or take an approval about her from anyone. It is actually only about you and her, and that is what matters the most.
Most girls like to maintain proper hygiene and prefer to be with a guy who follows the same. So, having found your dream girl, you too need to start following such habits. For example, having a bath every day, shaving regularly, maintaining oral hygiene, keeping your bachelor pad or room relatively clean, etc., are some of the things you need to start following pronto.
Now, that is really silly! Every person, every relationship and every phase of life is a different one. Comparisons from the past will only make you an over-expecting person. So, quit doing that and concentrate on what the present and future holds for you along with the ways to make them even better.
If you can see a future with this girl you like, you need to start saving up for a beautiful future too, right? So, start managing your finances well, and do not be so casual about spending huge amounts of money.
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It is human to make mistakes, and hence, you too are bound to make some every now and then. So, stop thinking that you can never be wrong and learn to accept and apologise for your mistakes.
Well, we know boys simply love to sit and eat on the bed, play video games, watch movies all day long on a holiday, dress like they are still in school, crack silly jokes, and what not! But, when you enter into a serious relationship, all of this needs to be monitored.
Believe us boys, girls like to maintain a safe distance from the guys who try to be someone they are not, show off a lot, and try too hard to prove a point. So, by pretending to be someone you are not, you might just lose her forever.
If you like her and know that she likes you back, then do not be an over-intruding boyfriend. Do not check her messages or mails. Let her choose her friends, let her live her life. Wouldn’t you want the same from her too? So, give her the space that she totally deserves or get ready to be kicked out of her life.
Well, no one needs to change themselves to love and be loved by someone. But, a few habits certainly need to be changed if they pose a threat to a relationship. So boys, do not be afraid of any of these changes as they simply turn you into a much better person than what you are today, and will assure you of a beautiful life filled with love.
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