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Every woman wants the perfect guy. A guy whom she can depend on, trust and love as her husband forever. Because there is a big difference between just dating and marrying a guy, she has to be very sure of her decision and her choice before she ties the knot. [Read: 18 Signs That Show He Is The Right One For You].
All women also happen to have a more or less similar checklist that they strike off one by one before they say 'yes' to the man of their dreams.
So to make you decide better, we get for you the most important checklist you need to be a hundred per cent sure of in your mind before saying ‘’I Do!’’
And, not just when he wants to! There are times when you just need him to switch off the TV and keep his phone aside, and listen to what you have to discuss. It could be work-related, home-related or anything else. Do you feel he is readily available and all ears for you when you need him, or does he only talk to you when he is in the right mood?
We know that girls claim that good looks are secondary, and what is more important is that the guy should have a pure and kind-hearted soul. Well, that too is true, but good looks top the list when you talk about the checklist. Every woman wants her partner to be attractive, although the parameters of attractiveness may wary from woman to woman.
Not only to you, but to people around him! Is he kind to people who are below his social stature? Does he appreciate the good in every situation, or does he just believe in cribbing about everything that goes wrong along with being a master at blame games!
A girl’s first hero is always her dad. She is her daddy’s little princess and she looks up to him in every way. So obviously, when it comes to marriage, she wants a guy who can match up to what a brilliant dad he has been to you and a devoted husband to your mom. Some pressure, right?
No woman likes a man who is disoriented and has no aims and goals to achieve in life. Rather, women are attracted to men who are well-settled, who have a drive within them to conquer their dreams, and put in their best to make their life along with their families, a happy one. Lazy and aimless people are the most unattractive of them all!
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Every girl obviously wants a nice and comfortable life that she has also led up till now. Most of them also desire to have a better, plush lifestyle post-marriage. Does this guy have a well-settled job? Is he starting his career now, so late? This, however, does not mean that women go behind men with money; it only means that financial security makes them feel more guarded and rightly so!
A woman too has some dreams. She may want to study a certain course, or pursue a certain career. Thus, she will always consider whether or not this guy supports her dreams too. Does he give her all the help he can or does he ask her to let go of her dreams so that he can pursue his own?
We do not mean that women want a cook as a husband, but at least the basics. For example, a hot cup of tea when she returns home late after work exhausted, a simple home-cooked meal of Maggi noodles and some coffee when she is feeling a little down under the weather, etc.
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No girl wants her husband to leave his mother for her. But, his mother’s interference in all their personal matters, unwanted advice and his constant comparisons about how good his mother is at something while you suck at the same can be super-annoying! So, if he calls his mother 10 times in a day and still takes permission for his every move, he certainly is out of the race!
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Will he support me against his family members when they are at fault and not me? Will he be a devoted husband to me? Will his business trips always be real business trips and nothing else? Can I really trust him to be mine forever? These questions cross every girl’s mind without a doubt!
Especially the compliments, which he gives her! Does he really mean that she looks gorgeous, or is he saying it to get something out of her, or just to make her happy? Also, is he reliable? Will he really meet her for a dinner date if he confirmed it, and not cancel on her just because an important work commitment?
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Your choices, your life goals, what marriage means to both of you, when exactly do you want to start a family, your ideas on lovemaking, how comfortable you are with your respective social circles, etc.!
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So all you girls out there, if you are really falling for a guy, make sure he passes all of the above points with a high score before you decide to go ahead with this relationship. And guys, if you too really like her, then be the guy that she wants you to be not because you have to, but because you want to!
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