So you are finding it immensely difficult to get over the blue eyed girl who once upon a time made your heart fly with the slightest batting of her eyelid? Do you tend to find comparisons between this girl and your fiancé and then end up quarrelling or being disappointed when the realization strikes?
Well, the only way to find happiness in your present relationship is to understand a few things that are mentioned below:
You know why people you loved upon a time are called Ex? Because this is an indication that they were not fit to continue being with you in your present. So why not let them be where they are fit to be? Moreover people do not behave similarly even in the same situations, so even if your Ex were to step in your life at this moment, it is highly unlikely that things would be the same again.
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When the twins born in the same minute and to the same biological mother aren’t alike in the truest sense of the term, then how do you expect your fiancé to act and behave like your first or second or third love did? Moreover, you are no more together with your former lover because something he did that hurt you badly, so why keep looking for the similar traits in this guy in your life, who’s here to love you in ways different to what you have experienced?
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Women enjoy immense power over a man’s emotional constitution and more often than not control him like a Yoyo wound about their charms. She enters and exits your life according to her own whims and fancies, making you alternate between feeling immense joy and unbearable hurt. Understand the viciousness behind these mind games and learn to withdraw because in this case, you are only being used as a stand-by.
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The Cuddly-Woodley giant size soft toy he gifted you, the innumerable love notes, the dried out roses pressed between novels: going over them a dozen times a day will not let you forget him. Why don’t you plan an evening with your fiancé by the fire side and use these memorabilia as fuel? You are going to feel immensely better and more at peace with life than you have in the past few months.
