By Namrata Arora Last Updated:
Unlike most women, men are more hassle-free, simple and easy-going in their attitude and mannerisms. Even though it is difficult and they mostly cannot, they try their best to understand the complex and confusing situations women often put them into. We do not mean that they are flawless and are at the mercy of their partners, but when it comes to their general outlook towards life, they are very relaxed and chilled out.
And, however close you might think you and your husband are, there are still things he will never discuss with you (even though he wants to scream them out loud), but will only discuss them with his friends. Curious to know what they are? Well, here is a list that tells you just that!
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When women come into money matters, they not only fail to understand the relationship all of them share but also how they manage to create rifts between them. Thus, men feel it best to keep money matters away from them! For them it is not about lying, it is only about protecting their friendships!
Like when you say you are fine, but you are super angry, or when you say you do not want a watch, but actually that is what you can think of all day long! Your husband does talk about how annoying that is to his friends! So whatever you do, they know!
Especially during an India Pakistan match! Imagine his plight when you ask him to accompany him to your friend’s mehendi function. Have some mercy woman!
And, how they wish they could tell you that in clear cut words along with wanting you to initiate, invent and be more fun while at it.
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If they say that to you, they might get the harsh silent treatment for months to come. So, they tell you what you want to hear, and not what the truth is!
And nag and nag and nag and nag all the time- for everything!
Women want to spend quality time even after spending quality time. Men have their day divided beforehand for their work, their workout, their sleep, television, and the time that they give you. Asking them for more time makes them irritable and helpless.
That is the only place they love to go a million times a day (we do not understand for what), and they want to be left alone. They also want to tell you that, but know you will not get it.
Because, even if they do tell you, you will unnecessarily suspect them of cheating and being unfaithful while actually they were genuinely just appreciating beauty!
Blood is thicker than water, right? So, it is very obvious.
Being romantic 24*7, planning surprises and date nights all the time, remembering all special dates, being a mind reader and always having time to spend is the definition of a character who does not exist in the real world. Period!
Like not having a bath, keeping the house as they want it- dirty, not going for shopping, watching news and cricket, not bitching and the list goes on and on and on!
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Yes, they all have these talks with their best pals without you ever coming to know. But, if you want them to be more communicative towards you as well, consider opening up and being a little more chilled out about things. You might end up becoming their best pals, other than being just a superb wife!