Various aspects of making yourself more appealing to your man have been discussed but it seems that no one has ever thought about developing a more delightful voice. Yes, the tone and pitch of your voice has a deep impact in terms of expressing your sensuality. Some people don’t realize that they have slightly irritating, nasal voices that usually don’t sound very enticing. However, some women seem to have a voice that sounds enticing even when heard on the voicemail or over the phone. This article is dedicated to the cause of exploring how to develop a more charming voice.
Getting Started with the Basics
Please note that most of the impactful, attention-grabbing and sensuous female voices have a high pitch. These are not manly voices but deep voices that are often referred to as a “voice with gravity” or “voice with depth”. Squeaky voices are hardly a turn-on for any man.
One of the leading examples of this is Marilyn Monroe. Those who have seen movies of this screen goddess would instantly understand that her voice was very feminine and could literally melt a guy’s heart. Her voice wasn’t too thin and she hardly ever spoke with too much emphasis. Her voice had a certain depth which made the simplest of words emanating from her mouth sound beautiful.
This is just to give you an idea about the kind of voice you should strive to develop.
Decoding Connection between Breathing and Having an Attractive Voice
Genetics explains that women are naturally attuned to have a more Breathy Voice. This is slightly difficult to explain but let me try. Also referred to as soughing, a Breathy Voice refers to more air being pushed inside the mouth, against the vocal cords when speaking.
This kind of voice is typically feminine. However, most women tend to lose this natural trait of theirs. The reason is they breathe too quickly or in a very shallow manner. Unless you are relaxed, you cannot breathe properly. Slower breathing is the basis of having a better, clearer tone.
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Slower breathing allows the muscles involved in producing the voice to relax. This renders a unique kind of smoothness your words.
Your Posture and Voice: What is the connection?
Our breathing patterns change with every posture of ours. When we slouch, we breathe shallower. This means we are not giving the voice-producing muscles to vibrate properly. This disturbs the pitch of the voice. Some people tend to breathe better in different postures.
For instance, some women opine that their voice is clearer when they lie flat on their back. This is when the posture is relaxed and breathing is more relaxed. If you can identify the postures in which your voice has a bit more edge to it, use it when talking to your man!
Practice for a Better Voice
Everybody is blessed with certain physical traits. This also includes the kind of voice a person is endowed with. You might have an inherently thinner voice that isn't the best bet when you want to sound charming. However, you can practice a bit to overcome this issue. For instance, learn to breathe more when talking. You should try talking slowly and without getting anxious. Talking fast unintentionally hampers your breathing pattern. Yoga exercises that emphasize on breathing hard through the nose and mouth should be practiced.
Please understand that the effort here is clarify as to what constitutes a more attractive voice and what can be done to develop such a tone. The tips listed here are essentially ease-to-adopt habits that can raise the overall appeal of your voice. We don’t recommend comparing your voice with others or getting obsessed with yours. The idea is to attain something better within the realm of keeping things Simple & Safe!
