Meet Robert Smith's Wife, Mary Poole, The Muse Behind 'Lovesong' And Singer's Lover Of Four Decades

Robert Smith has been making headlines for his collaboration with the Gen Z icon, Olivia Rodrigo. For the unversed, the Sour star will be releasing her third album, You Seem Pretty Sad for a Girl in Love, on Friday, June 12, 2026, and to mark the occasion, she joined the Cure frontman, Robert, to perform her song, What's Wrong With Me at the Primavera Sound. 

For the unversed, the Cure broke out of the post-punk underground in the mid-'80s with The Head on the Door and their double-disc follow-up, Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me. However, it was 1989's Disintegration that transformed the Cure into stadium headliners. However, did you know the album's biggest single, Lovesong was inspired by someone who has been beside Robert through it all? Yes, we are talking about his now wife, Mary Poole. So, as Robert Smith makes headlines once again, let's take a look at their love life.

Robert Smith met Mary Poole when he was just 14 years old

Imagine meeting the love of your life when you're just a kid. That's what happened to Robert Smith when he met Mary Poole at St. Wilfrid's Comprehensive School in Crawley, when he was just 14 years old. He eventually got the confidence to ask her to be his partner in a drama-class project. "I just struck lucky early on," he told The Guardian in 2004. According to a 1991 interview, it was Mary's lack of confidence in his future as a musician that instilled in him the drive to make the Cure (originally the Easy Cure) successful.

Robert Smith wrote Lovesong as a wedding present for Mary Poole

Almost 15 years after Robert Smith met Mary Poole, he penned his biggest hit, Lovesong, a gift he gave Mary on their wedding day. For the unversed, the two tied the knot on August 13, 1988, and have been going strong ever since. Robert reflected on the song during a conversation with Jeff Apter and stated:

"It's an open show of emotion. It's not trying to be clever. It's taken me 10 years to reach the point where I feel comfortable singing a very straightforward love song. In the past, I've always felt a last-minute need to disguise the sentiment. ...I couldn't think of what to give her, so I wrote her that song — cheap and cheerful. She would have preferred diamonds, I think, but she might look back and be glad that I gave her that." 

While little is known about Robert Smith and Mary Poole's personal lives, Robert has often shared insights into their home. The reclusive Smiths' personal lives are filled with laughter, love and constant support, and from what the singer has shared, Mary seems as eccentric as her husband. Robert once told The Face magazine that his wife "used to dress as a witch to scare little children," and he described her as "mental". However, on a more serious note, he told Pop magazine in 1996: 

"Mary means so incomprehensibly much to me. I actually don't think she has ever realised how dependent I've been on her during all these years we've been together. She's always been the one that has saved me when I have been the most self-destructive, she's always been the one that has caught me when I have been so very close to falling apart completely, and if she would have disappeared — I am sorry, I know that I'm falling into my irritating, miserable image by saying it — then I would have killed myself."

How a song inspired by Mary Poole changed Robert Smith's career

Robert Smith's wedding present became the thing that he needed to fuel his career. Lovesong hit #2 on the Billboard singles chart on October 21, 1989. It was the Cure's only U.S. top 10 hit and the band's biggest British single, peaking at No. 5. But that was not all; it was a gift that kept on giving. Yes! Robert has also received significant royalties from cover versions of the hits. The song has been covered by 311, American Idol winner, Candice Glover, and especially Adele, who recorded it for 21, an album that sold 31 million copies worldwide.

However, while Lovesong remains a loved track, the album Disintegration was a completely different story. It was actually a concerted effort to return to the more claustrophobically depressing, and presumably less mainstream, sound of the Cure's earlier material. Robert talked about the same in a conversation with Yahoo Entertainment in 2000 and said:

"After the Kiss Me album, we got our first real taste of big-time success in America. My reaction to it was to make Disintegration, which was at the time considered to be commercial suicide."

Where are Mary Poole and Robert Smith now?

These days, Robert Smith lives a quiet life between tours with Mary Poole in Britain. The singer seemingly is a completely different man from that neurotic 29-year-old whose early-onset midlife crisis spurred Disintegration. However, his landmark album, like his marriage, has endured all the tests of time. 

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