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They say that there is no right age to get married. But, we have something to share that will convince you that you can do way more than getting married before 25.
The early 20s is the best age to travel. You are young and energetic, and since you do not get tired easily, you can go on any adventure trip that you want. Explore as much as you can because later on, you would not have this much time and energy. Also, traveling induces a very different kind of perspective. Once you are married, it will be a vacation and not an adventure.
The definition of love is very subjective. More than often, what we think about it does not match with the reality. You might actually hate your dream man or woman in this non-fictional world. So, fall in love with someone, so that you have an understanding of what this word means to you. Settle down only when you fully understand it.
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The early 20s is the time to give attention to your career. First, you need to decide what you want to do, and then get practical knowledge of it. Analyse if you like it, and can do it for the rest of your life. If the answer is yes, then work as hard as you can to climb the vertical ladder, and if not, try your next option. Try as many options as you want to, choose your career wisely. Do you think you will have time to get married when you are committed to your career?
Yes, this is right. Selfishness is not a virtue but when you are young, it is not a vice either! You are alone, you have no responsibility! Thus, you have the divine right to be selfish. Believe it or not, at some level, this is essential. Once you are married, you cannot afford to be selfish. Remember that!
No matter how much we try to deny it, our relationships do change once we get married. And, if we are to stay with our partner for the rest of our lives, why not spend this little time with our friends and family? Go party with your friends. Stay out all night. Have coffee with your siblings. Shop with your mom and dad. Go for a long drive with them.
Piercing, weird hair colour, unique haircuts, electric nail paints, funky chains and batches. Do whatever you want. You would not ever get this time back. Try new things and experiment, in the best way or maybe not. Let all your imaginations come true. So, do not get married before 25 because a purple hair coloured bride and a groom with a Mohawk would be too much.
We have all dreamt about it, but not everyone dared to do it. Living on your own teaches you how to take care of yourself. Well logically, if you do not know how to take care of yourself, how will you take care of your family? Also, solitude is important and once you are married, you will never be able to live alone.
Read and be wise. Immerse yourself in the world of literature. Fiction, fantasy, romance, thriller or gothic; whatever you may choose, just read. Do it all day and all night. Not only will you enjoy this time away from technology, you will also gain a deep insight. Post marriage, you would not be able to finish a book even in a month.
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How can we leave this one? Movie marathons with a big bucket of popcorn and some friends! You can watch all your favourite movies on repeat all night. Can you do this after marriage?
Whatever you wanted to learn as a kid, you can do it now. You don't have to go to school or college or tuition. You do not need to ask your parents for permission or money. Go to work, earn some money and learn something that you want.
Since you are young and active, start running, hit the gym and achieve the body that you desire so much. You are a grown up now, so you can take care of your eating habits. Put in all that you have, and get that poster body.
20s is the time to make mistakes and then learn from it. Wrong career choices, wrong relationships; it can be anything. Turn all your mistakes and regrets into lessons to prepare yourself for a better future and marriage.
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Earn a lot, save some and spend some. The best part, you can do both just for yourself. As we mentioned earlier, be a little selfish in this one too. You have just started to earn, so you deserve to spend a little on yourself and save too.
You can be as carefree as you want to be, but you have to accept that somewhere down the line, you need to learn how to be responsible for yourself and for others. Instead of getting married first and then learning about all this, learn to be responsible before signing up for a relationship like marriage.
Last but not the least, find yourself. 20 to 25 years of age is the best time when one could find themselves. Listen for your calling. When you find yourself, you make better life choices which are essential for any marriage to work.
This is the time for you to live your life the way you want. Fall and rise; do it as many times as you want to. Gain experience and make a life on your own terms. Prepare yourself for the future but, till then, be crazy!
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