Nicole Kidman's Ex Tom Cruise Played A Subtle Role In Her Divorce From Keith Urban, 'Legal Steps..'
Nicole Kidman is hogging the spotlight after opening up about her divorce from Keith Urban. Amid this, here's a look at the subtle way Tom Cruise played a role in Nicole and Keith's divorce.

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Add BollywoodShaadis on GoogleNicole Kidman is hogging the spotlight after opening up about her divorce from Keith Urban. For those unaware, the duo was married for 19 years and divorced at the beginning of this year, in January 2026. While speaking about her divorce, Nicole also compared it to her very public split from her ex-husband, Tom Cruise, in 2001. Amid this, here's a look at the subtle way Tom played a role in Nicole and Keith’s divorce.
Nicole Kidman went “into a spiral” during her divorce with Keith Urban
According to reports, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s split was pretty amicable, especially considering most celebrity divorces these days. Despite this, the actress' prior divorce from her first husband, Tom Cruise, might have haunted her during the proceedings.
During the negotiations, a source for the Daily Mail had claimed that the biggest “sticking point” for Nicole was the “custody of Sunday and Faith.” Reports suggest that Nicole had been given primary custody of both their daughters for 306 days a year. On the other hand, Keith was only given 59 days. The source said that “Keith was initially asking for equal time with their daughters,” but Nicole was unhappy with the request and went “into a spiral.”

The outlet reported that the reason behind Nicole’s reaction might have something to do with her split from Tom Cruise in 2001. A second source revealed, “Nicole also wanted the kids more because she wasn't given that benefit when she divorced Tom Cruise.”
While Nicole and Tom’s divorce agreement gave the former couple joint custody of their children, Isabella and Connor, it was their ties to the Church of Scientology that included their decision to stay with their father full-time. This eventually led to an estranged relationship between Nicole and their kids, Isabella and Connor.
During a 2018 interview, Nicole lightly touched upon the subject, stating that they are adults who are able to make their own decisions. She added, “They have made choices to be Scientologists, and as a mother, it's my job to live them.”
Between Isabella and Connor, the actress seems to share a warmer relationship with her eldest daughter. She reportedly supported her during her divorce from Keith Urban. An insider claimed:
“Bella has been a huge cheerleader for her. She has had a front seat to this split, and she encouraged Nicole to take a hard stance and take the legal steps to separate. Nicole was keeping the marriage on life support, and it was sucking the soul out of her.”
Well, after her custody battle with Tom Cruise, Nicole fought even harder for Sunday and Faith. Reportedly, Keith also realized this. The source for the publication concluded:
“Their daughters are both in their teens and need their mother more than their father at these ages. Keith knew he’d never win the battle in court and finally backed down. That’s when the divorce was settled.”
What did Nicole Kidman say about her divorce from Keith Urban?
During her recent interview with Vogue, Nicole Kidman spoke about her divorce from Keith Urban, whom she married in 2006. In September 2025, when the 59-year-old filed for divorce from her ex-husband, she cited marital difficulties and irreconcilable differences. Nicole revealed during the interview that her second divorce had been a difficult period in her life.
She admitted that while she didn't expect her life to turn out like this, she would just have to adapt. In her words:
“But at the same time I’m like, ‘OK, I didn’t expect this. I had a different view of what my life was going to be, but this is what it is now.’ You make all these plans, and you have all these ideas of what it’s all going to be like, and then it’s not. You have to adjust. You adapt. The future, it’s completely unknown to me right now.”

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