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In a relationship, living in together is a milestone that most millennial couples are swearing by. Before being pronounced as husband and wife, couples are welcoming the idea of living in with their partner to know them better. It makes you realise that their idea of ‘nothing’ might not be same as yours, you’ll get to know the habits you weren’t earlier aware of your partner, binging movies/TV shows get another meaning and you are there for each other in the highs and lows without the husband and wife tag. Being in a live-in relationship might not all be roses and butterflies, but if you're with the right person, it will be worth the fight! (Also Read: Sushmita Sen's Couple Workout Pictures With Boyfriend, Rohman Shawl Are Giving Us Goosebumps!)
Former Bigg Boss contestant, Nehha Pendse celebrated the 'live-in' milestone in her relationship with beau, Shardul Singh Bayas before they had tied the knot on January 5, 2020. Shardul and Nehha were pronounced husband and wife as per Maharashtrian rituals, and since then, they have been enjoying their married life to the fullest. On Holi 2020, Nehha had posted a couple picture with her hubby, Shardul and had captioned it “This is just as colourful as we can get this holi .. jyada holi Coro-na. Happy holi everyone!! Be safe, stay protected and loved.”
In an interaction with ETimes, Nehha Pendse addressed the trolls she has been facing since her wedding with Shardul Singh Bayas, her married life and their live-in relationship. Revealing how being in a live-in relationship had helped her understand Shardul more, Nehha shared, “Very few people knew that Shardul and I were in a live-in before marriage. The whole point of living together was that we should know each other inside out and our positives and negatives. So I am aware of his annoying habits too and they don’t bother me.”
Post her wedding, Nehha Pendse had revealed that her hubby, Shardul Singh Bayas has two kids from his previous two failed marriages. Since then, Nehha is surrounded with questions about the same by the media and trolls have targeted her with negative comments. Addressing the same, Nehha stated, “I got badly trolled last year post marriage. People have been trolling me left, right and centre. I feel bad because people troll you without knowing the truth or the situation. They troll you as if they know nothing about life. Also I feel people who troll have nothing left in life that they get the ultimate pleasure and happiness by demeaning a person. I have never been trolled so much ever in my life. I even came out of reality show like Bigg Boss with a clean chit. But soon after my marriage, this huge trolling scene happened. I have taken it with a pinch of salt. My husband introduced me to an audio book since I am not into reading. It is – ‘The subtle art of not giving a f*ck’ and this is for all my trollers.” (Also Read: Namrata Shirodkar Praises Hubby, Mahesh Babu For Making Whole Family Laugh In These Trying Times)
Due to the ongoing COVID-19 lockdown, Nehha Pendse shared her experience of the quarantine phase and how it has changed from the initial days to now. Nehha remarked, “We have been spending time together. Nayi nayi shaadi hai, we do get to spend a lot of time together. But now it is like, ‘Please go and work. We have seen each other enough.’ We are making efforts in the sense we are trying to stop a conversation we find the other person is getting irritated. In our house, most of the things are personalised – two TVs, two rooms. So when we want to spend some lone time, we do that. We also make sure to watch something together as well. First few days of the lockdown, we were very excited. We were like, ‘Baby, let’s do this, let’s do that.’ We were playing monopoly, Scotland Yard and other games. But then we were done with the games too.”
Nehha Pendse had celebrated her first Gudi Padwa post-wedding on March 25, 2020, with hubby, Shardul Singh Bayas. Posting twinning in pink pictures on her Instagram account, Nehha had written, “Celebrating my first gudi padwa post marriage in absolute quarantine thank u @zeetalkies for ur last year gudi hamper ..dat definitely saved the day. stay safe everyone , pl stay home.. ani saglyanna gudi padwa chya anek shubheccha.” Nehha had looked like a beautiful Marathi mulgi in a gorgeous pink saree by Raw Mango and had accentuated her attire with a pretty nath.
Nehha Pendse and Shardul Singh Bayas had celebrated their first Valentine’s Day this year as husband and wife, and sharing the glimpses of the same, she had written, “Believe u me ... this is my first ever Valentine’s date.. have longed forever to celebrate this day of love !! @shardulbayas you are the answer to the endless prayers to my almighty .. I love u.” (Also Read: Kamya Panjabi's Husband, Shalabh Dang Pampers Her With 'Tel Maalish', Proves He Is The Best Husband)
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Celebrated on the first day of Chaitra month, Gudi Padwa marks the welcome of New Year according to the Hindu calendar. Considered as one of the most auspicious days, it is celebrated with great zeal and fervour by the Maharashtrians. It's a festival of joy, new beginnings and happiness! AndRead More