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Finding your soulmate, who truly, deeply and madly loves and cares for you, is no less than a blessing from the lord. In today’s world of selfishness and deception, you are lucky to have found the one. But, how do you make sure whether this guy who claims to be the perfect match for you, and shows it too by all his gestures, will love you forever or his concern towards you is just temporary? Well, here are the top signs that help you decide whether this guy is for the keeps or not.
At the times of crisis, an accident, a breakdown that you are having or maybe a huge fight; he sticks by your side and helps you come out of the horrid situation with his support at every step.
And, does not get his ego in between! He is mature enough to accept that he too can be wrong at times and does not shy away from apologising.
When the two of you have a huge misunderstanding, instead of pouncing back at you with allegations, he tries to step into your shoes to understand your perspective, and find out exactly what it is that is hurting you!
Be it a big thing or a small one, he appreciates your efforts and how hard you work to create this beautiful life for the two of you, and tells you often how grateful he is to have you.
You know, like asking for directions (which men usually do not do), advise on money matters and investments or something work-related, he always asks for yours or someone else’s opinion!
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He is not shy to cry when he is upset, and crying does not seem to challenge his masculinity in any way. He is human too! And, being sensitive is rather an attractive quality in a guy, don’t you think?
Instead of just cribbing about what has gone wrong or playing blame games, he tries to work things out by thinking of solutions.
Because he always encourages and appreciates you. That is what keeps you going and makes you do your best!
When he knows you can handle a situation yourself or you need to be alone, he steps back. But, when he knows he needs to stand by you, he always steps up!
He understands that arguing with you when you are angry will only worsen the situation. So, he stays calm and patient when you are not ,and that shows how practical and balanced he is as a person.
And, even when he does unintentionally, you can see how much that affects him too by the way he tries to make things up!
To avoid fights, you should think about giving some space to your partner. Read here: 5 Foolproof Ways To Set Boundaries In Your Relationship Without Hurting Your Partner
Like how you could not have that cake last night, which you were craving to have. And, he sends you one the next afternoon as a surprise! Little things that make a huge difference!
Because he has that positive energy, a zeal to try new things and enjoy life to the fullest, which he passes on to you as well!
Also, check for these 18 Signs That Show He Is The Right One For You
You can think of no other person for your child to grow up to be more than him as he knows the value of respect, gratitude and kindness.
And, likes to try out things that you like to do. Not only does it give you two some more time together, but he also gets to learn a new hobby!
So, if you are wondering whether a guy who possesses all these qualities really exists, then let us break the good news to you– he does! And, if you have found the one, tag him here to let him know how truly blessed you feel.
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