10 Ways You Fall In Love Differently After You Have Had Your First Major Heartbreak

Once you are done with your first major heartbreak, you are completely done with the person that you were before. Your perception, your way of loving someone and your expectations change drastically, but for good. When you finally fall in love again, your ways will be different, just like the ones given below.

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#1. Learn from your mistakes

First things first, learn from your mistakes. Maybe you consider that it was your partner who was at fault, but he or she could only do anything bad to you because you let it happen. Whatever the reason may have been for your breakup, try not to repeat it. Do not get hurt by doing the same thing twice.

#2. More prepared about ups and downs

The first major heartbreak teaches one that not everything will be sunny. One will have to endure the gloomy days as well. These heartbreaks prepare a person to be more realistic. So, the next time when you enter into a relationship, you have more realistic notions of a possible partner and realistic expectations from a relationship.

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#3. Avoid the danger signs

Since you have been in a relationship once, you are quite aware of the red signs. And, now that you are more mature, you will not wave them off as a sign of your insecurities.

#4. Give time to a relation

Since, you have had your heart broken once, you will take the time to fall in love again. You will be more cautious about letting the other person in. You will take your time to take the next step. Now you know that rushing is not a good thing.

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#5. When to say ‘NO’

A break-up teaches you a lot of things, including the knowledge about when to make a compromise and when to take a stand. First love is always special, thus we tend to adjust a little more than we should. These things hit your dignity hard when everything is over. But now, you will know when to say 'no'.

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#6. Emotionally strong

Once you come out of a major break-up, you emerge as an emotionally strong person. You feel that stomach wrenching pain, but then you realise that you have to move on. This strength that makes you move on makes you stronger as well. And next time, you will enter a relationship as a stronger person which is always a good sign.

#7. Something new to look forward to

No two love stories are the same. You might initially expect your new partner to behave a little like the older one, but you will soon realise that it would not happen. You will find that things are different with different people and you will start accepting. This will make you more adjusting and understanding.

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#9. Know when to give or need space

Everybody, really, everybody acts a little clingy when they are madly in love for the first time. This often leads to the 'space issue'. Now that you know about this fact, you would not mind giving or taking some 'me time'. You will know that some time out wouldn't make your partner leave you. That insecurity will not exist this time.

#10. Cynical yet fine

You were cynical then, you will be cynical now. The only thing that will be different is the degree of cynicism. You will no longer be that doubtful. The trust issues will end to a certain extent. You have learnt that you have to let go of certain things. Everything need not be put under a microscope.

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Dealing with a major heartbreak calls for strength and falling in love again needs courage. No love story has the same ending. Just because your previous relationship did not work, it does not mean that the next one will not work either. The next time you fall in love will be completely different. It will be a new experience.