Kathryn Hahn often provides a realistic insight into her bond with husband, Ethan Sandler. Here's all about their love story as she gets cast in 'Tangled'.
Kathryn Hahn has officially been cast as the villainous' Mother Gothel' in Disney's upcoming live-action reimagining of Tangled. For the unversed, 'Mother Gothel' is the manipulative antagonist who kidnaps Rapunzel to use her magical hair to gain eternal youth. The casting news received immense love from fans. After months of fan speculation regarding the development, following Kathryn's breakout role as 'Agatha Harkness' in the MCU, she herself confirmed the news on March 11, 2026. At a time when she's hitting new career heights, let's take a look at the man she'd be sharing her happiness with, her husband, Ethan Sandler.
Ethan Sandler is an American actor, writer, and producer best known for his role as 'ADA Jeffrey Brandau' on Crossing Jordan. Born on December 3, 1972, he is currently 53 years old as of March 2026. Ethan has balanced his career between on-screen acting and behind-the-scenes production. His film credits include The Princess Diaries (2001), The Bourne Supremacy (2004), and voice work for several characters in Disney's Meet the Robinsons (2007). He also shared the screen with his wife, Kathryn Hahn in the series, Transparent.
In recent years, Ethan Sandler has focused more on writing and producing for television than acting. His notable credits as a co-executive producer and writer include New Girl, Man with a Plan, Whitney, and My Boys. His latest work was reportedly in Monster: The Ed Gein Story. Ethan and his wife, Kathryn Hahn work in the same industry, which helps them foster a good understanding of each other's professional endeavours.
Kathryn Hahn and Ethan Sandler were college sweethearts, and their relationship began in 1993 as undergraduates at Northwestern University, where they were both theatre students. According to the couple's interview with the Northwestern Alumni Association, Sandler mentioned he met Kathryn during their first year when she and a friend visited his dormitory. They quickly became a campus couple and reportedly moved into a dorm together shortly after their first meeting. Recalling their initial connection, Ethan stated:
"We met our first year of college. My very close and still dear friend, Daniel Milder-- Daniel Avi Epstein Miller from Seattle, Washington-- they went on a date. And Kathryn and her friend Alex came by the dormitory. And we met very briefly then. And then we had sort of mutual friends in common, I would say."
After graduating in 1995, Kathryn and Ethan moved to New York City to pursue their acting careers. They spent eight years living in a cramped, fourth-floor walk-up in Hell's Kitchen that reportedly had only one sink in the entire household. Despite the not-so-comfortable lifestyle, they were happy because they had each other to rely on. During that time, they both worked on off-off-Broadway shows and also faced a lot of rejection for roles. However, they supported each other's early careers.
After dating for nearly a decade, Kathryn and Ethan got married in 2002 in a low-key ceremony. Even 33 years after their wedding, they have rarely shared photos or detailed accounts of their special day, maintaining a high level of privacy in their personal lives. Interestingly, in 2002, the couple's fans also got to see their on-screen chemistry. They began appearing together on the crime drama, Crossing Jordan. Interestingly, in the series, their characters, 'Lily Lebowski' and 'Jeffrey Brandau', also became a couple and eventually married.
Kathryn Hahn became pregnant with her first child at 32, and the pregnancy was incorporated into Crossing Jordan's storyline. She and Ethan welcomed their first child, a boy, Leonard Henry Sandler, after four years of marriage. Born in October 2006. Leonardo is 19 years old as of March 2026. The couple's second child, a daughter named Mae Marie Sandler, was born prematurely on July 27, 2009. It was a comparatively difficult birth process, with Kathryn reportedly being in labour for two days. However, the delivery happened smoothly, and both kids grew up healthy. Regarding her family, Kathryn said:
"I have cute kids and a hubby forever and two dogs and a rabbit and now a hamster. We're turning into animal hoarders. So I have this rich and creative life but also a normal life, and I've been able to keep the two separate and holy."
Kathryn Hahn explained that she and her husband, Ethan Sandler, have "broken up and gotten married and divorced about seven times" over their over three decades of relationship, due to the natural evolution of their partnership through different life stages. During a November 2025 appearance on The Goop Podcast, she noted that long-term marriage involves navigating the inevitable "shitty years." Kathryn joked that if a 30-year+ marriage has five bad years, you're still "doing great."
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