Females are a complex species and they are capable of complicating even the most simplistic matters. Now, who can understand this better than a groom-to-be who is literally torn between pleasing his fiancé as well as maintaining his own prized Individuality?
Given below are few suggestions that will surely make him every bit reverend in the eyes of his bride to be.
However clichéd the thing may sound to you, the proposal while kneeling down on one knee, with an engagement ring is still considered the most classic offer of marriage and expression of love. Women are hopeless romantics and the dozens of romantic movies they watch only make the case miserable for the groom. But then it is easier also because you don’t have to look for ways in which to propose. Simply go down on one knee, hold out the ring and with the sincerest expression say the magical words!
If it is a traditional Indian arranged marriage, there isn’t much you can do when it comes to deciding the ring your bride will like the most. Nevertheless, there are certain things all girls like, for instance diamonds set in gold band or a big, cut solitaire diamond. Try finding about her likes and dislikes if you can. The option of the last resort is to take her ring shopping, if you get lucky enough to take her out alone before engagement.
Respect your in-laws right from the time of betrothal itself. Seek their permission while taking her out, whether on shopping or on dinner. Don’t go over the top, but keep the formality intact till they first show the parental informality and affection for you. Prove to them that you are every bit a gentleman and The Man who will love their daughter as much as they love her.
Don’t think that your fiancé is being overly bossy by meaning to have a say in your wedding couture. Well, girls are like that and you also love them for this, right? Let her have a say but do not give in to her whims and fancies at the cost of your style statement and individuality. Don’t defy her straight (she will make you pay for that) but show her the reason in what you think. You do have the right to look every bit elegant as the bride on the wedding day.
Nobody is talking of your performance. What is being suggested here is that since your fiancé has personally looked into all the details of the wedding, honeymoon planning is your chance to prove yourself. Begin preparing for it months in advance and select a destination which you think she will absolutely love. Plan a couple of surprises for her.
Remember women love talking and you got to make sure that all they talk about it you, your love, your intellect and your care!
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