16 Unnecessary Things You Stress About When In A Relationship

Stress is something that can not only make you super anxious and ill, but can also completely destroy your relationships. It is in human nature to worry about both important as well as unimportant things. You may   read a dozen of those self-help books, but eventually, you circle back to take stress over menial issues. In relationships, whether it is the guy or the girl, certain thoughts and issues that  you think might be bothering your partner (even if they do not), can leave your relationship to die a sad death. 

So, to save you from that situation, we give you a list of such things that you are unnecessarily stressing over when it comes to your relationship.

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#1. Will this relationship last?

If you keep worrying about the future and something that might or might not happen, you will lose out on enjoying life and miss out on all the lovely things it has to offer you. If it lasts- good, if it does not, there is something better in store for you.

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#2. Does he/she like me for what I really am?

Obviously they do. And if not, you will get to know soon enough by their actions.

#3. Does his/her parents like me?

Overstressing about this will make you extremely self-conscious and you may come across as someone trying too hard to impress. Just relax and be yourself when you meet your partner's parents.

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#4. Does he/she expect more out of me while in bed?

If something is wrong or lacking and if your partner is sincere, then he/she will discuss this matter with you themselves. So, just go with the flow and chill!

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#5. Why didn't he/she call me?

When they find the time, they will. In the meanwhile, stop stressing and start living your life. Go to work, meet friends, join a hobby class and divert your mind!

#6. We do not like the same shows/hobbies?

So what? You two are different individuals with different hobbies and personalities. And have you not heard of the phrase ‘opposites attract’? So, instead of stressing, try out each other’s hobbies and spend some more quality time. And you never know, you might end up liking your partner’s hobbies even more.

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#7. Am I popular amongst his/her friend?

Peer pressure can be an influential thing, especially when it comes to relationships as everyone wants their close friends to approve of their partner. Well, if you really mean the world to your partner, his/her friends will automatically love you.

#8. Why does he/she want space from me?

Well, don’t you want that too sometimes? Wanting space does not mean they are ignoring you. It just means they want some time to be in their own space to relax and rewind.

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#9. He/she never posts anything on facebook 

If he/she does not want to make your love life open for the world to see, we do not think they are at fault here. And if he/she does not stop you from posting, why stress?

#10. What is he/she thinking?

Why do you want to know that? And, what would happen if you got to know and is it really worth knowing? Think about it!

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#11. Can he/she ever cheat on me?

Jealousy or doubt can ruin a relationship before it even starts. So, trust your partner and have some faith. But, if you still feel something’s fishy, then you have every right to find out what’s going on and take action.

#12. Am I doing everything to keep this relationship going ?

Every person feels that they are the one doing all the work in a relationship. Try stepping into the other person’s shoes to actually realise what they are doing as well. And, even if you are making an extra effort, isn’t that a good thing?

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#13. Will the relationship end if we keep fighting every now and then?

All couples fight. Do not fear that your partner will leave you, if you put across your opinion and stand by it. After all, every relationship goes through its ups and down.

#14. Am I really good enough for him/her?

If you do not love yourself, no one else can love you either. Be confident, never question or judge the way you look, talk or present yourself in general, and always know that you are an awesome person.

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#15. He/she never gifts you things or plans surprises ?

Some people are a little less expressive, and slow in planning surprises. But, that does not mean they do not love you. So, instead of over analysing this thing, just tell them what you want!

#16. Why isn’t he/she committing?

Having met your partner just a few months back and expecting a lifelong commitment is asking for a bit too much too soon. However, if you and your partner have been in your relationship for a long time now and still there are no signs of commitment, then that is something you should worry about.

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Finding your soulmate and knowing you have made the right choice is nothing less than a blessing. So, cherish it, and do not let useless insecurities ruin the beautiful thing you have going!