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You meet a person, you become friends and somehow you develop a liking for each other (sometimes), and this is when your confusion starts. You get confused whether you have a crush on that person or is it something more than that. Your heart tells something and your mind tells some other.
You are in a sort of a dilemmna. But worry no more, as we will tell you about certain signs that will not only help you in clearing your thoughts, but will also help you in deciding whether you have a crush on that person or is there something more about it.
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When you have a crush, you tend to act unusual in front of the person due to nervousness, but when there is kuch kuch hota hai, you don’t act weird but are yourself in front of him/her.
Instead of seeing them chori chori chupke chupke, you eagerly wait to meet and talk to them. You just don’t hesitate in meeting them face to face any more.
You don’t feel jumpy, breathless and over-excited when you are with them. Instead, you feel calm, composed and relaxed in their company.
You no longer take hours to decide what to wear to impress him/her. In fact, impressing them with your dressing is no longer your agenda.
You don’t hop from one shop to another to find a T-shirt or a dress of his/her favourite colour because you want her/him to notice you and not what you are wearing.
If you have crush, the thought ‘God, does he/she will think that I am desperate’ will definitely cross your mind every time you send a text message. You will even Google sometimes to find a perfect message or joke to share. But if it is more than a crush, then you will not care about any such thing. You will message what you want to and when you want to.
The question, ‘What does he/she thinks about me’ will be on your mind most of the time, if you have crush on the person. In fact, you will even try to know about it somehow from his/her pals. But you wouldn’t care about the answer if it’s more than a crush.
If it is more than a crush then you will do anything that he/she likes, just to please the person. You want them to like the real you and not the artificial you.
You are no longer interested in knowing other people. Nor your heart beats ten times faster after looking at every other boy or girl.
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When his/her mood is off, you do your best to cheer up. And if that person want some time alone, you leave him/her without any compliant because you have that understanding.
You make sensible decisions and just don’t say ‘yes’ to anything the other person has to say.
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There is a thin line between crush and love. Sometimes, it does get difficult to know whether you have crush on that person or you are in love with them. But with these points you can now know your exact feelings. So, what are you waiting for go ahead and get rid of your dilemma right away!
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