By Namrata Arora Last Updated:
Getting married to the one you have met through an arranged married set up or to someone you have been with for a long time is the biggest, newest and most beautiful change in your life. It’s the beginning of this wonderful new journey full of lows and highs, a time when new fond memories are formed and most importantly, a phase of life where you learn to give, become more responsible and get a sense of belonging.
But what happens when all of this happens in your early 20’s? Well, we tell you just that right here, right now, so read on!
Because you both got married young, you have the same interests that you did before like partying, being awesome hosts, lying late in bed on the weekends and not caring much about how clean or not your pad is!
You order in a pizza, some chilled beer and rent in your favourite DVD to watch at night. Could life get more perfect than this?
Because you both are permanent dates for each other for life! And pretty hot ones if we may add. What a relief it is to not having to go on those dating sites to find yourself one, right?
Especially if you are in a nuclear family set up, you feel like you have moved in together and nothing else has changed. Night outs, romantic getaways, a lot of love making and everything that you did as bachelors.
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And discovering new mature, adult things like paying bills, managing the accounts, taking some nice saving policies etc; all of this, every day, together as a team!
If you don’t show a keen interest in marriage, they say why aren’t you getting married and if you do get hooked early, they aren’t happy with that too! So, you really can’t please them completely, can you?
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Because you know that even though you have had more than just a few drinks, your spouse is absolutely sober and will make sure that you will get home safe and on time.
Because now that you have left their house to go start a family of your own, you miss having them around all the time like earlier, you realise all that they did for you and how you took all of that for granted.
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You have changed to become better versions of your previous self and watching each other grow as individuals, is a rather interesting and special thing.
Because you got married early, if not immediately but you will plan to have babies in a few years. So obviously, you will still be young when the little one arrives.
Because the two of you are very normal around your friends and don’t indulge in annoying couple-y traits. With your gangs, you are just two good friends like the rest of them. Also, you fit in with each other’s groups as you are more or less the same age group.
Because you are young, full of energy and relatively free, you strive for adventure and fun. So, whenever you get the chance, you pack some clothes, get into your cars and drive down for quick road trips either with your group or alone.
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In your eyes, you are the master chef, but ordering and staying in bed is so much more convenient, isn’t it? So, on the days when you are not invited for dinner, are out for a party or are having a fast, you prefer to order.
You want to be your best version in front of them. Even if you disagree with something they say, you try to adjust and do everything possible to impress them (sometimes because you want to and other times because you have to!)
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You care for them as your own kids, your social media accounts are full of their pictures, you take them to the pet spa together, they are allowed on the bed and they are basically like your first toddlers.
While you might think that marriage has made the both of you quite mature and balanced as individuals, the fact remains that you still are very immature. But with time, you both make your own share of mistakes and learn from your mistakes.
Weird as it may sound, but knowing that you have a partner this early in your life and getting to spend each day with that person is just- PRICELESS!!!
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Marrying early or late; both the cases have their own merits and demerits. But marrying the person you really love, the one who understands and respects you, the one who never tries to put you down or restrict you from following your dream only makes you a better person.
Be it any age, if you have found that special one, take the plunge and tie the knot kyunki kya pata, jo hai sama, kal ho na ho.