A good foreplay is something that starts long before you hit the bedroom. You may be a goddess in bed, but unless you know ‘how to turn on a guy’ (without shedding off clothes!), you are certainly missing out a great chance to spice up your sex life.
Well, turn on for guys does not 'start and end in bed.' The best way to kindle romance in relationships is to play around with time, place, and style. Keep the sex in air, and let your actions take the charge! Add humour, fun, sneaky moves, and everything you can do to bring spark inside the bedroom walls.
#1. Go Out for Dinner
Now, on this dinner, you are just allowed to talk about your hidden fantasies. Whisper some naughty things in his ear. For men, it is really a turn on when women act naughty with them, especially at a public place. All these talks will explode his mind in ecstasy, and eventually leading to a great sex for the two of you.
Sexy Tip: Order foods that are lascivious, such as chocolate cake or mousse. Chocolate contains the love drug, i.e., phenylethylamine (PEA). It releases endorphin, which is considered to be a great mood elevator.
#2. Smart Cooking
Cooking for your partner is very romantic, but if done smartly, it can be really sexy too. How? Just make the dinner that requires no extra 'sponsors' like forks, spoons, and knife. Your entire dinner should have things that can be eaten with fingers. Feed this special meal to your partner with your own hands. Want to add more spice? Put a chocolate in your mouth, and slowly kiss your sweetheart to share it.
Read this to know what all ingredients to use while cooking the special meal for him: Top 6 Foods to Boost Your Sex Life
#3. Reveal Your Wild Side
Though sounds shallow, but it is true that one of the biggest turn ons for a man is ‘skin show’. When you are alone, rehearse some really sensuous moves on few good numbers. Once he comes home, and looks at the television as a source of entertainment, show him a live performance which is just meant for him. This unexpected move from your side will drive him crazy, and totally turn him on.
#4. Get Set Wet!
Since, you have cooked such a sumptuous meal for him, he will be more than willing to help you in the kitchen. So, ask him to help you in washing the dishes and while doing so, start a water fight. Water fights are way sexier than the food fights. Also, studies have proven that couples who do household chores together get to experiment with 'new places' at 'different times', instead of waiting for night and bedroom for initiating the action.
While you do your best to woo him with your charm, also know what not to do for a happy relationship: 10 Annoying Habits for Which Men Resent their Wives
#5. Love Date!
When was the last time you just let your fingers do the talking? Well, time to plan an hour long pure ‘love date’ with him. Borrow the teenage style, i.e., no ‘below the belt’ contact. It will break clichéd actions, and bring more novelty in your bedroom life. This will also help you both discover new 'hot' spots than the already explored ones!
#6. Go Shopping!
Men hate shopping because they are made to sit on the couch doing nothing! Well, time to add fun for him. It is believed that men love everything that visually enhances their sensuous experience. So, take advantage of this, ask him to pick clothes for you. Be his personal model, he would simply love to see you coming out in front of him in different sexy outfits picked by him.
There are so many ways by which you can build anticipation before you two go for the actual thing. Try any of these naughty things with your man leaving him craving even more for you.