Have you been seeing your guy for long and yet get a feeling that he is not the right one? Have you ever been attracted to other guys even though you’re in a relationship? Have you secretly wished a life without him? If all these questions have a “yes” for an answer, you might just be with the wrong guy!
Here are a few indicators that will help you reconsider the decision of staying in a relationship.
Can’t share your feelings with him
Don’t you often turn to either your immediate family and friends or your boyfriend if you have to share anything? But, if lately you haven’t been sharing anything with your boyfriend you should really give your relationship a second thought. Look for signs, such as you always calling up friends to vent your feelings rather than your partner, or if you totally abstain (yes, it’s a strong term) mentioning any of your experiences to him.
Haven’t you heard that you fight the most with those you love the most? But, if fights take a perennial course then the relationship threads are definitely strained. There might be times when you would deliberately pick a fight, not speak for weeks, and not bother to give him a call to make up. In relationship dictionary, this is termed as pseudo breakup; you do make up after sometime but find yourself run this course too often. This is a potent indicator of your relationship has run its course and you should just let go, mutually or otherwise.
He talks only when you meet
A conversation is a sure shot sign that two people are opening up to each other, but do you spend quality time talking to your boyfriend? Do you yearn for those quick late-night calls where they’d just call you to say ‘I love you’? If you are nodding your head you better watch out! What’s the point if your guy talks to you only when you meet? Next time, you must try looking for cues as to why he doesn’t make any effort to strike a conversation, or why you keep running out of topics.
Your own share of doubts:
· He forces you to have sex.
· He imposes his choices on you.
· You can’t be yourself around him or his family and friends.
· He is a control freak.
· You think he is a better as a friend than a future husband.
· You don’t trust him and keep scanning his emails and social networking accounts.
· Your long term goals are incompatible.
· You’re growing apart and not together.
So, if you cease to exist as the person you are before him, you better know what you’re losing out on girls!