When you first fell for your partner, everything about him/her was exiting and lovable. Your relationship was passionate and you loved every moment of it. Now, you have been together for a long time and things are a getting slow and routine. To keep the passion alive, you have to work at it— check out these things which you must never stop doing to keep your relationship sparkling:
1. Having fun together
Remember the fun you had together. Don’t stop doing things that made you fall for each other. Laugh at your partner’s jokes and share the good old times. Do not turn him/her down when he/she suggests a romantic walk one evening, TV can wait. Sometimes, skip a day at work and do your favorite thing together.
2. Keep Flirting with each other
Grab her back or his biceps as your partner walks by and then nod approvingly. Hold hands while watching a movie in theatre, share popcorn and pepsi.
3. Being intimate
Surprising your partner in the shower because you want some steamy love is a good idea. Sex should not be reserved only for nights and bedrooms. Try new positions and new places. Stay up late a weeknight just rolling around in bed and behaving like teenagers again.
4. Adjusting to their needs and taste.
Compromise is the base of every successful relationship. Settle for a show you both can enjoy, when she wants to watch Desperate Housewives and he wants to watch the game. Try to enjoy (or at least tolerate) things your partner likes. Show some interest when she complains about the color of someone’s dress or why he thinks Messi is a better player than Ronaldo.
5. Maintain your space
Maintain your privacy and the mystique of your body. Even if you are living together, do not clean your ears or clip your toenails in front of your partner. Keep your body complaints to yourself—the more comfortable you get in a relationship, the more you may start complaining how bad you feel about yourself.
6. Dressing Up
Being in a relationship is no excuse for stopping to look good. Swipe on some lip gloss or put on your best T-shirt even if you are just running errands. Look good even if you are not trying to impress your partner with looks anymore.
7. Giving surprises
Do the unexpected; seduce your partner in a totally new way. Pick up his favorite beer or her favorite ice-cream on your way home. Plan a surprise date or candle-lit dinner at home.
8. Saying ‘I love you’
It is most important to proclaim your love for your partner. You must make your partner feel how important they are in your life.
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