It is tougher to make your man jealous and be doted upon all the time if he is not into you. It is only fair to demand his attention, if he has been running busy, spending most of his time at workplace or partying out with friends. And, believe us, crying is a passé. No longer do guys like their girls turning into cry-babies who are always cribbing for attention. We reckon that you breeze through a few ways that will set his heart on fire with envy!
Tell him, there is a life without him too
There is a life outside your castle of love too. You should take some time out for yourself. Go out with your girlfriends and throw pajama parties and while you are out with them, do not take his calls. Or, if you want to tease him and ignite jealous sparks in his heart, attend the call and tell him how much fun you are having or even better pick his call and let him overhear your fun-conversations.
Play Reverse Psychology
Why cannot you do what he does to you, when he says he is busy and will get back? If he decides to give you a call when it gets difficult for you to talk, give him the taste of his own medicine. If he doesn’t want you to know who he is hanging out with, you can also shoot the same bullet of sweet revenge. Share this reverse psychology of ‘you get what you give’ with your friends too.
Compliment Other Guys
Got a new haircut and your guy failed to praise you? Sporting a new ‘just lost-weight’ look, and he still doesn’t consider complimenting you? Well, to tackle this phase of being royally ignored, try out this formula: make a flattering remark about your male friends in front of him, or make a mention of how this new male friend keeps volleying compliments. Boy, this will make your man go green with envy.
Make him crave for your attention by ignoring him. If he hops in online, do not buzz him at first. Wait for him to approach you and then just let him take an initiative of starting a conversation with you. If he calls you, pretend you are busy and do not commit that you will call him. Let some thoughts run in his head till it wears him out.
Go Out with Male Friends
No guy would ever like the idea of his girl spending maximum time with her male friends, especially when she tells him that she is busy and cannot meet him. This will put him off and he will certainly have to compete with others for your attention. Learn to be mysterious and you will see how much this will make him crave for you.
But, since every medicine has a prescription that carries a word of caution and so does this article. Beware; your guy might retaliate by making parallel moves. Make subtle moves. And if you still feel that things are not working out, you can let things run their own course, unless you both feel that you both must be together.