A kiss may sound like just a kiss, but there’s a lot more in there that needs to be explored. While for some, locking lips can be a truly magical spine tingling moment, for some it may be a just a way to show ‘some’ affection.
A lot goes in making kiss a sensual one. Right from the mental attitude, the affection level, the fondness to the right chemistry, everything attributes to making a kiss, the ultimate seal of love. There are a few tips to make the this moment of intimacy memorable.
With these tips, you are bound to set that chemistry just correct.
Choose the right moment
Springing into action at the very word go won’t help in getting that perfect kiss. Everything requires patience and so does a kiss. You have to learn to be patient and wait for the right moment. Look out for signs like moments when your partner is eyeing you intently or standing close to you or simply smiling at you mischievously. These moments might tell you how inclined he or she is towards kissing.
Don’t shy from making eye contact
Girls usually shy from making eye contact, they think its romantic, but few guys may think otherwise, so know what makes your partner feel turned on? May be your partner likes to have eye contact because it ups the level of sexual intimacy for him and you don’t want to lose the chemistry when kissing with passion. Try and make eye contact post the lip locking session, if not during the act.
Read body language
Kissing should be only confined to an action scene involving lips. It shouldn’t involve hand movements or exploring the partner’s body, especially when you feel your partner’s body shrink in tension. This not just sometimes spoils the fun of kissing, but completely distracts and puts off a kisser. It is also not advisable to do so especially if it’s your first time.
However, extra hand gestures often give away the signs of deeper intimacy, which ideally should be tried when you have a deeper relation. Don’t forget to embrace your partner and make them feel special and wanted when kissing. There’s no feeling of greater physical satisfaction than allowing your feelings to flow and gestures to show as you lock your lips. In fact, try and hold your partner gently, yet passionately, suggesting longingness for more of the act.
Make it passionate
Lip locking should not be like devouring your partner. It should be delicately with lips only, but in a gentler yet passionate manner. The Hollywood style tongue exploring can be left for later. After all, you have to help build his expectation and not give away to your night secrets so soon.
Kissing should not just be sudden desperate act. It’s a signal suggesting passion. To linger on the magic, it’s important to create the feeling of longing in your partner. Holding hands and talking can be a very strong signal for that. After all you don’t want to end a potential series of kisses or passionate night with some sudden impromptu kiss sessions.